Azathoth
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So i have this friend who is the typical AFC: too nice, wants girls but wont go get them, etc. So he's telling me about this girl he thinks is cute the other day, and i decided i would help him out. Yesterday i went to where she works and chatted her up about my friend, and got her number for him. She seemed all for it, and even told me to tell him that he doesnt have to be so shy. So by helping him i help myself like this:
I now know another girl, who in turn most likely has female friends. The fact that i went up to her and got her #, even if not for me shows her i have confidence, and more that likely she ran home from work and called her friends --> "this guy asked me...." etc, so I'm already looking good to the friends (unconsciously if you will). Since i set them up, its likely i'll end up around them (double dates, etc.) So i'll get to meet her friends who already have a good view of me. The rest i'm sure i can take care of. Also:
I had a successful meeting with a girl who was a stranger to me: Confidence Builder
Another thing: this girl said YES. So, she's either been waiting for my friend to ask her for her #, possible, but i dont think so, or she may have been willing to say yes to any guy that came along. I COULD HAVE ASKED FOR ME.
THEY ARE WAITING FOR YOU TO ASK THEM OUT
You dont know who may be lurking around the corner staring at you, it could be the same person you're thinking about. Get out there and get those #'s!
And now he owes me a favor.
So if you can't manage to talk to girls and ask for their #'s for yourself, help a friend out. You'll learn that girls arent as scary as they may seem, and hey she might just say no to your friend and ask for your #. You'll be building confidence. And you won't have worry about screwing up either. Then maybe your friend can help you out the same way if thats what you want. Just get out there and start doing it.
~~*Azathoth*~~
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There's only really two things about a man that matter: What he wants and what he'll do to get it. Everything else we pretend is important - whether you're tough or good-looking, smart, stupid, whatever - that's just details.
-Caine, The Blade of Tyshalle
I now know another girl, who in turn most likely has female friends. The fact that i went up to her and got her #, even if not for me shows her i have confidence, and more that likely she ran home from work and called her friends --> "this guy asked me...." etc, so I'm already looking good to the friends (unconsciously if you will). Since i set them up, its likely i'll end up around them (double dates, etc.) So i'll get to meet her friends who already have a good view of me. The rest i'm sure i can take care of. Also:
I had a successful meeting with a girl who was a stranger to me: Confidence Builder
Another thing: this girl said YES. So, she's either been waiting for my friend to ask her for her #, possible, but i dont think so, or she may have been willing to say yes to any guy that came along. I COULD HAVE ASKED FOR ME.
THEY ARE WAITING FOR YOU TO ASK THEM OUT
You dont know who may be lurking around the corner staring at you, it could be the same person you're thinking about. Get out there and get those #'s!
And now he owes me a favor.
So if you can't manage to talk to girls and ask for their #'s for yourself, help a friend out. You'll learn that girls arent as scary as they may seem, and hey she might just say no to your friend and ask for your #. You'll be building confidence. And you won't have worry about screwing up either. Then maybe your friend can help you out the same way if thats what you want. Just get out there and start doing it.
~~*Azathoth*~~
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There's only really two things about a man that matter: What he wants and what he'll do to get it. Everything else we pretend is important - whether you're tough or good-looking, smart, stupid, whatever - that's just details.
-Caine, The Blade of Tyshalle