"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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im having a halloween party soon, theres gonna be a couple of girls i have my eyes set on that i pretty much can get, BUT! these girls are going to be wearing very sexy costumes. whats a costume i can wear that screams out sex. any ideas on what i could be??
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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considering i was an ex goth and i sometimes tend to go with that look once in a while anyways, that might not be a costume here.
 

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if you were a goth, you will never get laid, so don't worry about it. :)
 

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you do if you were in the goth scene, and i said ex goth, the girls love it so theres no problem in that
 

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Originally posted by The_Shezzler
A Vampire, u can then go in for the kill on her neck

blah, i vant to suck your bloooooodd hehe

Sarge On...
Hahhaa Nice, Real Nice.

To the poster,

My man, it doesn't matter what costume you wear.

Remember looks only get you notice.

So what they are going to look like slvts. Why on earth do you want to wear something that makes you scream sex? Only thing that comes to mine is a Male Gigolo.

Look no matter what costume you wear it will guarantee you banging these girls. Notice yes but not enough to get them.

You need to work seriously on your inner game from here and forever.

Listen stop scheming and thinking of contingency plans on how to get these chicks.

You know why?

Because in the end it won't go as well as you planned. You will be down in the dumps because you had too much expectation and hopes in dreams in this party to get these girls and it didn't work out the way you want it.

I've been here and done that. Trust me its waste of time. Just game other chicks while you game these and have a good time. Who knows maybe you'll find some other hotter and better chick then those or the ones your after are not really what your looking for.

Don't put all your eggs in one basket.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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