"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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ok so I'm a senior in college, last semester in one of my classes I spy an absoutetly drop-dead gorgeous girl, honest to god, the most beautiful girl I've ever seen in person, however, it wasn't until the latter part of the semester that I noticed her so i didn't have time to talk to her.

i sent her a message on facebook (an online community for college students with profiles and ****) asking her out, but she turned me down, claiming some bs about a boyfriend (don't think she has one), but its understandable since we don't know each other. i wrote her back telling her it was cool, and still leaving my offer on the table

we go to a small school but problem is she lives like an hour away off campus and i've yet to see her around, and i don't know any of her friends.

so what should i do, its kind of wierd but i'm obsessed with this girl(if you could see how beautiful she is you'd know) and all i have to go on is a stupid online profile. i'm kind of a shy dude so its not exactly easy for me to just approach me people and strike up a conversation

should i just move on or trying something else?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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definitly move on....if u try any harder to get her attention you will come across as a creep/weirdo....sorry

Respect
 
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Originally posted by mackattack
can anyone else offer advice??
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Yeah first off realize that physical attraction is genetic, she knows whether or not she'd **** you within the first 5 seconds of seeing you / your picture (i.e. screening your physical appearance).

The fact that she told you she had a boyfriends means:

1) She actually does
or
2) She doesn't but *hint* she's telling you, you dont meet her physical standards of attraction.

So ask her point blank if she finds you attractive, or if she'd date you without her bf, its that simple IMHO. Then you know to give up.
 
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I would suggest reading 'The Art Of Seduction" by Robert Greene to get ideas.

However, be seeing other girls and DO NOT become emotionally attached to the outcome. See this as an opportunity to advance your game.

She has to notice you and you have to provide what she is missing in her life. Get the book and do the math. A very effective tool.

I do realize that NEXTing is a practice that promotes only being with girls who are interested...but there is a higher level of game. HOW TO MAKE THEM INTERESTED WHEN THEY'RE NOT. lol

Good luck!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You're getting oneitis.

I suggest sacking ten other women.
 
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