"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Help a brotha out.....DATE IDEAS NEEDED

STR8UP

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I always do this crap. I tell a chick I have a "surprise" for her to captivate her attention for whatever reason, but the problem is that when I say it, I have absolutely NO clue what the surprise is going to be.

Usually I can manage to come up with something pretty good, but this time I'm at a loss. Mind is about 1000 other places right now, I guess.

So this chick is supposed to be coming to visit, and I told her that if she came up I would surprise her with "something to bring some excitement to her life".

Looking for ideas here. I told her if she came to visit I would have something "exciting" planned for her. From her trying to guess what it is, I think she's hoping that it's more on the "romantic" side.

I have had sex with her in the past and she is now single and looking for a relationship with me. I wouldn't mind something non-exclusive, but anything other than that is out of the question (she lives 2 hours away).

So I need some "date" ideas. Preferably something cheap that doesn't require too much time and effort to coordinate.

Ideas?
 

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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Lol, why are you setting yourself up for this kind of thing? If you take her home, I would do the whole "blindfold her and feed her various types of food" from 9-1/2 weeks
 

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Go for the old standard romantic candlelight dinner.

Meal provided courtesy of KFC.

Heh heh well it worked for me a few times anyway.
 

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Church's is cheaper and better with Texas Pete hot sauce!

Brother STR8UP, if you want her to remember the meal, cook it yourself. She doesn't need to come to your place. Sear a flank steak, slice it rare and throw it in a salad full of hearty greens. Go somewhere quiet to enjoy it with a decent bottle of Pino Grigio (Stella pino grigio 2003 is one of my favorites).

That bird will be eating out of your hand.
 

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KarmaSutra said:
Church's is cheaper and better with Texas Pete hot sauce!

Brother STR8UP, if you want her to remember the meal, cook it yourself. She doesn't need to come to your place. Sear a flank steak, slice it rare and throw it in a salad full of hearty greens. Go somewhere quiet to enjoy it with a decent bottle of Pino Grigio (Stella pino grigio 2003 is one of my favorites).

That bird will be eating out of your hand.
I like to cook so this has always seemed to work for me. Chicks love it when a guy cooks for them. Bad thing about it is sometimes they love it too much!!!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Here is what I liked

Rollerskating - and you can just take her hand and zoom around the rink

Archery - she loved that one, cause she's never done it before - if you can, try to go to a shooting range (though where I live you need a gun license)

Also arcade- play some dance dance revolution + go-karting - high energy
 

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I like the botanic garden for this kind of thing. But Im a biology student so I know alot about the plants which always goes well. Plus nature is really conducive to getting close to chicks for some reason.
 

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Take her to 6 flags..roller coaster then

Bang her in the dark alley

give her a butt massage with Mazola oil..

she will remember you...
 

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It's going to be 4th of July on Friday STR8. Memorable opportunities abound. Fireworks. Buy some. Set 'em off together. Then sucked down a few Jack & Cokes.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The cooking thing would be interesting. Over the past year she lost some weight doing the salad deal. Good for me cause she's tightened up the bod since I last explored it :). Now that's pretty much all she eats, and how hard is salad? I would need an interesting dressing recipe though. Anyone have one of those lying around? I guess that's what the internet is for....

Hmmm....maybe I'll make it all up in advance and take her to the lake that's right around the corner and do the picnic deal. Haven't done that in a loooooonng time.

Sounds like a small effort = big return type deal to me!
 

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STR8UP said:
The cooking thing would be interesting. Over the past year she lost some weight doing the salad deal. Good for me cause she's tightened up the bod since I last explored it :). Now that's pretty much all she eats, and how hard is salad? I would need an interesting dressing recipe though. Anyone have one of those lying around?
Lettuce, olives, broccolli, shredded cheddar cheese, shredded mozzarella, 8 crumbled boiled eggs, 8 crumbled strips of bacon, sliced peperoni, diced ham, with croutons dipped in marshmallow cream & friend in the grease from the bacon. Call it "W8UP salad".

Last 4th of July for me was a picinic on a rooftop in view of the local fireworks.
 
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