HELP! 22 y/o Sister is being a spoiled little brat!!

[spesmilitis]

Yeah, talk to your parents. If they don't do anything, its their fault for having to pay the bills.

 

[Ken785]

they dont do anything...she kisses up to them...after our argument and she thought she had "won" after she made comments about how smarter she was then me (this is my younger sister) she was all on the uppity up saying "mom and dad, ill cook for you!"

she just makes my blood boil so much i feel like i want to strangle her...how do i deal with her?????

i dont think she even cares for my parents at all...she just uses them for money, she even mentioned one time that she helped my parents sign up for a safety deposit box and also put her name on it...she said she knew how much my parents had and that they were "ballin"...when i asked how much she said she wouldnt tell me...

if she wasnt my sister....i dont know man, i dont trust her.

 

[Analytic]

Ken, sorry to say but this is a lost cause because you can't change by words. Suck it up and pay off your debts, move out and show them you're the responsible one since you have no voice in the house if you're living off your parent. Sitting down to talk with your parent will do some good but the problem lies deeper then this.

The problems here is with your parents and in a lot of ways you, you lead a bad example to your siblings. No offense but leeching off your parents at 24 and 10k in debt doent exactly show a lot of maturity.

Karma will come back to them and bite them in the ass, if not your sibling then it'll be your parent. They will have to learn the hard way. Meanwhile work hard to get back on your feet and gain their respect, only then will your words will mean anything.