Hello!

[Monkora]

Well, this is partly so I remember to come back to this site.

I'm 15. Year 11. 2 years left of High School left. I've read bits and pieces of various PUA sites, but am quite glad to have found a board for High School!

Which is where the problem starts. I've one-itis, but I think the root of the problem is that I just can't find any other girl that appeals to me like she does. We did go out for a while, but she very quickly got bored of me. I go to a school in a small town, so I don't really have anywhere to meet anyone and was wondering what I could do to rectify this?

I want to build some inner game, be a bit more smooth and eventually have a girlfriend rather than a series of flings.

Thanks and hello!
-Monkora

EDIT: Should probably mention I'm from New Zealand, so summer holidays starting in late November.

 

[jeffthechef]

i'm in the same grade..same age..
ONEITIS...IT'S EASILY FIXED..i had it for this girl for a whole year..i would try to find out everything about her form facebook and my friends..i was trying to find similar breaks and run into her "concidentally"...

ANYWAYS...i still ifnd her attractive and she's on my list of 9....
The thing is...people often say they can't get over their oneitis..and it really is quite easy...nothing is stopping you but you..so there is no problem..it' s the self unwilling to break with what it knows...everyone is raised with cinderella (which i still haven't seen) believing they will find one girl and live happily together ever after...This isn't wrong..you prolly will find someone but not this early..usually

Everytime you see a girl..look at her..check her out...all of her...out of school/in school..anywhere..look at every girl you can find..not ina weird way of course...you'll eventually start realizing how many girls there are...AND stop thinking about that girl you want right now...thinking about her a lot won't help you get closer to going out...go do what you enjoy..TALK WITH MORE GIRLS <BIG ONE

i wasn't talking with enough girls..i only talked to girl's i had oneitis for...you might just not be getting much action..so you might find yourself chasing the first girl you think likes you

Good Luck

 

[Monkora]

I talk to more girls than I do guys. But by flirting with more and just establishing connections even if I don't want to pursue it, it would help?

 

[jeffthechef]

YES...NO MAN ONLY FINDS ONE GIRL ATTRACTIVE....
A MAN CAN, however, CHOOSE TO ONLY PURSUE ONE.

DID YOU READ THE DJ BIBLE?

ok. read it if you haven't especially some on oneitis cause there's lots

Go out with some girl you find somewhat attractive...maybe that will work out better..or maybe while that happens the girl you want might want you more cause people want what they can't have...

YOU'RE SINGLE. GO EXPAND YOUR LIST OF OPTIONS. YOU'RE NOT COMMITTED TO ANYONE.