"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Hello. My Name Is "Hun"

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I seriously can't believe how many women call me "hun" (as in short for "honey") There's like two or three of them in the office that call me that, there's the women at the bar who LOVE calling me that, and it just blows me away that they will willingly do it regardless of them having a boyfriend or me being in a relationship.

Anyone else have this happen?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Constantly. Usually by women in their mid-20s or older. Among other similar names. I think if you're a fun guy and open to flirting, it's normal for women to do that to you.
 

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Agree and amplify. Whenever I get this from a woman (and I should add my wife has never called me 'hun') roll with it and hand it back to her by referring to her as 'babe' or 'my dear'. Assuming a familiar tone is indeed a flirtation of sorts, however if you're eating in some home-cooking type restaurant I wouldn't read it as such.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Note to self...

:nono: Stop calling guys "Hun", "Darlin" and "Sugar".:nono:

It obviously upsets them.
 

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I don't have a problem with it, I actually like it. It doesn't even matter to me what kind of woman says it, it's very endearing.
DJDamage said:
End it by saying this out loud:

"Thank you Ma'am"

No girl in her 20's wants to be known in public as a Ma'am.
You've never had your Mother, Grandmother, Aunt, etc. use these terms with you?
 

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I seriously can't believe how many women call me "hun" (as in short for "honey") There's like two or three of them in the office that call me that, there's the women at the bar who LOVE calling me that, and it just blows me away that they will willingly do it regardless of them having a boyfriend or me being in a relationship.
when they do that, and are near you, you should reply "thank you darling", while gently and discretly pass your hand through her ass.
 

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SXS said:
when they do that, and are near you, you should reply "thank you darling", while gently and discretly pass your hand through her ass.
i dont think theres a way to discreetly pass your hand THROUGH her ass. LOL


Most women call younger males around them hon, sweetie etc...that is if your subordinate or equal at the workplace. I dont find myself in that position as at work I am in positions of power so they call me sir or boss.
 

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Julian said:
i dont think theres a way to discreetly pass your hand THROUGH her ass. LOL


Most women call younger males around them hon, sweetie etc...that is if your subordinate or equal at the workplace. I dont find myself in that position as at work I am in positions of power so they call me sir or boss.
I am wondering if there would be the usual faked up indignant drama from the feminasty 20 somethings if YOU called them "sweetie" or "honey " ?

I swear, the office is not the fun place it used to be.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Ultimate Apocalype Opener: Call her hun and fist her discreetly
 

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i dont think even clint eastwood would do that.
 

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WaterTiger said:
Note to self...

:nono: Stop calling guys "Hun", "Darlin" and "Sugar".:nono:

It obviously upsets them.
who knew?
 

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Or, if someone calls you hun, make a joke about goths or saxons...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You know next time a chick calls me hun, i'm going to go over there and grab some ass.
 
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Actually I'm with Tazman and some others here, I actually like it too. It is endearing. Encourage more of your friends to do it too. Seriously. Spread a little positivity in this stolid American society.

WaterTiger said:
Note to self...

:nono: Stop calling guys "Hun", "Darlin" and "Sugar".:nono:

It obviously upsets them.
 

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^^^ You're safe... as long as that guy doesn't try to pass his hand through your ass.
 
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