CryingFreeman
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Hi, I don't know if this is the right place but I am frustrated. I am 27 and I am a VIRGIN! I don't know even know what to say. but i will gladly take ur questions.
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I m not happy with my life, i eat ice cream in my basement all day.mikeyb said:Apart from being a virgin, are you happy with your life and are you passionate about anything (hobby, job, etc)?
Do you lead a healthy lifestyle? Do you work out? Is your diet relatively clean?
And finally...
Have you read the DJ Bible?
you can be my best friend.CryingFreeman said:I m not happy with my life, i eat ice cream in my basement all day.
I am passionate aboue Battlestar Galactica
My lifestyle is healthy, I play D&D with my friend david and it takes alot of mental exercise.
My diet is clean I only eat 10 twinkies a day.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
muhuwahaha said:you can be my best friend.
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