"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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guywhoneedshelp

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I've been listening to the person in the control room talk about his online dating adventures. He has made me laugh loudly with some of his disaster stories, one of them involving a girl smoking a blunt while they were in the car on the way to the movies.

He seems pretty AFC, but he seems to say good things about online dating. I have never tried it, but maybe it would be fun to try for the experience. I would definitely learn some things by having some disaster stories of my own. I don't really think I'm going to waste my money though.

Anthony Kelly came over today and gave me his $1,000 for our Cancun vacation. We went to Angela Gulizio's house, the travel agent, and picked up the documents. I'm very excited.

Back to work.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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loving

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And whats your full name/address?

No doubt there's girls on the net and some of them are there to supplicate their social scene, but some depend on it for that. You dont want those as theyre often the damaged or ****ed up ones.

I don't know, but last time I checked there's thousands of girls one sees on a full day around the town. Add a few hundred at any given club. Really the small amount thats available and "your type" on the net doesnt compare to the effort you gotta put there, and there's not even a guarantee of getting some social experience from there, just perhaps the experience that ****, I wasted my time.
 

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loving said:
And whats your full name/address?

No doubt there's girls on the net and some of them are there to supplicate their social scene, but some depend on it for that. You dont want those as theyre often the damaged or ****ed up ones.

I don't know, but last time I checked there's thousands of girls one sees on a full day around the town. Add a few hundred at any given club. Really the small amount thats available and "your type" on the net doesnt compare to the effort you gotta put there, and there's not even a guarantee of getting some social experience from there, just perhaps the experience that ****, I wasted my time.

I agree, the women I have meet/smashed in person always were higher quality then online. I swear some girls online criteria for a dude is just stupid crazy. Some girls looking for Brad Pitt but whiy would Brad be online?
 
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