Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned by a DJ

[Austin Allegro]

Man, the DJ stuff is powerful. I have just witnessed its effects.

I've been seeing a Russian girl for a while (see my previous thread 'HB gets weird after sex').

Although I liked her I wasn't mad about her and didn't see much LTR potential. She had shown some red flags so I had put her on 'next row' for a while. Finally last night the sentence got passed.

We went out for a meal and I was pretty sure 'the talk' was coming, but I wasn't expecting what I got. She basically ripped my character to threads, attacking every aspect of DJ behaviour I had shown, eg:

'You are totally inconsistent' - ie, I don't regularly call her or pester her or send her flowers and chocolates like she kept hinting she wanted.

'You never compliment me' - not true - I had just kept the compliments to a minimum and not showered her like an AFC

'You think I am not good enough for you - who the hell do you think you are - Brad Pitt?' - this was because I had said although I liked her, I didn't think our personalities were suited to an LTR.

So I just calmly said 'you've made your feelings clear. I'm going to to walk you to your bus stop now'. (we had originally planned to go back to my place.).

This seemed to completely throw her and she became all nice, saying 'oh please, please don't just walk away, please stay for one more drink'. So stupidly I did. Then she came out with the killer:

'Even though you are treating me this way it just makes me want you more, I can't understand it - I just want to f*ck your brains out...even if you don't want to see me again can we go back to your place?'

Now at first I thought no, but then thought what the hell.

This is all just to show the awesome power of the DJ principles. I'm not particularly proud of this episode but it just shows how womens' minds work.

 

[EternalBachelor]

She sounds slightly unstable...lol
This reminds me of an episode from Coupling (UK comedy) called Flushed, in which Steve was trying to dump Jane. EVerytime he tried to give her the talk she "suggested" sex, or mentioned she was wearing stockings, and as a last resort said she was sleeping with another women, all of which instantly made Steve lose his resolve.

 

[Austin Allegro]

Yep. She showed me more red flags than a communist rally.

You're right though. Women WILL use sex to manipulate men. Generally they do this by witholding it, but if this doesn't work, they will go to the other extreme and offer it to you just when you've reestablished control.

 

[Don_Marko]

Originally posted by Austin Allegro
Yep. She showed me more red flags than a communist rally.

That's gold!

 

[GREAT WHITE SHARK]

sex.... its our weakeness..

 

[comic_relief]

That is funny. She sounds abit unstable but that is how most women act.

 

[Belgium_Freak]

here is a good response if she says : who do you think you are, brad pitt ?

You : you think brad pitt is going to want you ?

 

[juaneo]

I remember those old Austin Allegro's, a mate of mine used to have a 1750 sport which he sprayed metallic purple, what a machine!!

You're right! If you apply the DJ ways correctly it will drive women crazy.

I heard from a friend of my last girlfriend that she used to complain about how she never knew where she stood with me. She never knew whether I was that interested in her or not, but I used to call her and ask her out so I must have been interested to a point.

She also said that apart from that the sex was great !!

The bottom line was I was never that interested in her so I was a DJ with her naturally. The real challenge as to whether you are a true DJ is when you meet a girl that you actually think is cool, keeping those nice guy instincts in check can be VERY hard.

I have lost a couple of girls by turning in to a wussy and telling them how I felt about them, usually after a couple of beers though. Doh!!

Keep up the good work Austin.