redspicyflag
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i was wondering how important height is to girls. does it really matter? Since i am like 5' 3'' b/c of genetics.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
height?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
this might not be a good news for you...but yes, height does matter to girls
it's naturally programmed into humans since the beginning to recognise these 'physical' appearences to choose 'strong-mate'.
but there are ways to go around these barriers...
5'3..thats really short for a guy man, but i suggest weight training, having broad shoulders can kind of miniminse your small-ness
and your personality can also determine how others see you...if your small and quiet, then people can just push you around..whereas if you have an outgoing personality (well..loud and express yourself more) then people would perceive you as not as small....
it's naturally programmed into humans since the beginning to recognise these 'physical' appearences to choose 'strong-mate'.
but there are ways to go around these barriers...
5'3..thats really short for a guy man, but i suggest weight training, having broad shoulders can kind of miniminse your small-ness
and your personality can also determine how others see you...if your small and quiet, then people can just push you around..whereas if you have an outgoing personality (well..loud and express yourself more) then people would perceive you as not as small....
people don't like loud types. the one way around being short is to have money. simple as that. money can make a short man very tall. as a matter of fact, instead of learning lame tips on how to get females just make money. money will get you what you want.
haha there are several categories in being 'loud'elmo said:people don't like loud types. the one way around being short is to have money. simple as that. money can make a short man very tall. as a matter of fact, instead of learning lame tips on how to get females just make money. money will get you what you want.
theres your typical loud one, jus talking **** all the time and irritating others (but people like this actually get along with others well)
then theres another loud one, as in being a positive person and having a things to say when it comes down to making decision...money...yea its all good as long as you know how to use it!:rock:
the original topic is concerning whether girls care about height...i merely gave you examples of how not to be perceived as small...not how to be liked by everyone
at your age it's pretty important to a lot of girls. don't worry about it, work out, dress well, be confident and happy and not upset about your height. when your older it will matter a lot lessredspicyflag said:i was wondering how important height is to girls. does it really matter? Since i am like 5' 3'' b/c of genetics.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
it depends. if youre short and undeveloped puberty wise, girls won't find you very attractive because you actually are about the same amount developed as a little kid.applaya said:at your age it's pretty important to a lot of girls. don't worry about it, work out, dress well, be confident and happy and not upset about your height. when your older it will matter a lot less
on the other hand, if youre developed, like facial hair n stuff, sure. my friend is 5'3 and gets enough chicks.
Distant Light
Master Don Juan
Its better to be tall but just like looks it doesn't make or break you I have a friend who is 5'4 or 5'5 and pulls girls his height, he is constantly meeting girls.
shydude
Master Don Juan
ETa ur vegetables.. Strech ur muslces.. Take some classes and get stronger. Dont get too fat or u will look like dwarf. ANd not recomened picking a girls thats like Jordans heigh..
LongDrinkofWater
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Man, don't worry about what you don't have, but rather work on maximizing what you've got already. Being here is a good start. Don't get caught up in the height thing too much, because you have what you're going to have. On the other hand, everyone in this world starts out with zero game. Some just learn faster than others.
A friend of mine growing up couldn't have been any taller than about 5'2"-5'4" tops. Guy pulled all kinds of chicks. Wound up marrying a tall thin hot readhead who had to have been three or four inches taller than him. Bill was the kind of guy that was friendly, outgoing, worked out and took no crap from anyone. He just kept it loose and was alwas on the lookout for a good time. He was one of my best friends.
Another guy I know is also about the same height. Constantly complaining about not getting any women and always talking about sex in one way or another. He's overbearing, overweight, loud and does not take very good care of himself. He is pretty smart, very articulate and a fast learner. He has the tools to get women, just not the focus. He could surely learn the verbal skills easily enough, but the rest of his "aura" needs work.
To me, contrasting these two guys have taught me a lot and I am sure the comparison isn't for naught.....
A friend of mine growing up couldn't have been any taller than about 5'2"-5'4" tops. Guy pulled all kinds of chicks. Wound up marrying a tall thin hot readhead who had to have been three or four inches taller than him. Bill was the kind of guy that was friendly, outgoing, worked out and took no crap from anyone. He just kept it loose and was alwas on the lookout for a good time. He was one of my best friends.
Another guy I know is also about the same height. Constantly complaining about not getting any women and always talking about sex in one way or another. He's overbearing, overweight, loud and does not take very good care of himself. He is pretty smart, very articulate and a fast learner. He has the tools to get women, just not the focus. He could surely learn the verbal skills easily enough, but the rest of his "aura" needs work.
To me, contrasting these two guys have taught me a lot and I am sure the comparison isn't for naught.....
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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I am 5'5. But girls will always tell me "Wow you are short" like after they are attracted to me. Once I asked a girl that was a friend "Why do people keep saying that to me and not other guys my height?" She was like "You are one of the people that when someone thinks of you they always picture you to be so much taller." Why because they are attracted to me. Follow? height and money don't matter. It will get you laid yes, but you don't need ata ll.
PeterNorthisawesome
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That's bad most chicks like guys who are 6ft and taller, most of them don't like guys who are shorter than them because they want someone that can protect them... if i was 5'3 I would get jacked prob aim for 220lbs or try to get surgery to add couple inches.redspicyflag said:i was wondering how important height is to girls. does it really matter? Since i am like 5' 3'' b/c of genetics.
defiancy
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just be thankful you're not this weird guy at my school....You know what he does? He looks like a 7th grader...wears like the gayest jacket with cartoon characters, rides a scooter....and carries the gayest umbrella on a rainy day
yea hes short too
personally height is important, but like looks it is not completely necessary
yea hes short too
personally height is important, but like looks it is not completely necessary
Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
You forgot that he plays 'monster battle' card games with his other social outcast friends.defiancy said:just be thankful you're not this weird guy at my school....You know what he does? He looks like a 7th grader...wears like the gayest jacket with cartoon characters, rides a scooter....and carries the gayest umbrella on a rainy day
yea hes short too
personally height is important, but like looks it is not completely necessary
defiancy
Senior Don Juan
true I've seen some weirdest guys go to a science classroom and they're like the only ones there to play like pokemon or something lol
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.