jhonny9546
Master Don Juan
It’s fascinating how often women seem to care more about a man’s height than his behavior.
Over the years, after many failed attempts and a lot of observation, I’ve developed a better understanding of this dynamic. I’ve noticed that some women may feel uneasy about a man’s shorter stature, even if he have a manly behaviour, yet are drawn to taller men who might behave in less appropriate ways.
The reverse rarely happens and is often labeled as “insecure,” “misogynistic,” or “overcompensating.”
What’s been your experience with this?
It would be awesome to hear from tall men, those who did not experience this bias directly, but have noticed how it plays out socially or in dating.
If you’re short, it often feels like you have to give 120% just to be seen at the same level. If you’re tall, sometimes 20% is enough.
And just to be clear, this isn’t a “men vs. men” thing. Many men respect each other regardless of height or shoe size. This is about how women perceive and prioritize those traits.
Finally, I'd like to say that in my experience, there have been some women who were healthy and mature enough to understand that height doesn't matter (being taller than them was enough) and that it mattered more if she could be "listened to" in a certain way by you, as well as trusting in your abilities.
Over the years, after many failed attempts and a lot of observation, I’ve developed a better understanding of this dynamic. I’ve noticed that some women may feel uneasy about a man’s shorter stature, even if he have a manly behaviour, yet are drawn to taller men who might behave in less appropriate ways.
The reverse rarely happens and is often labeled as “insecure,” “misogynistic,” or “overcompensating.”
What’s been your experience with this?
It would be awesome to hear from tall men, those who did not experience this bias directly, but have noticed how it plays out socially or in dating.
If you’re short, it often feels like you have to give 120% just to be seen at the same level. If you’re tall, sometimes 20% is enough.
And just to be clear, this isn’t a “men vs. men” thing. Many men respect each other regardless of height or shoe size. This is about how women perceive and prioritize those traits.
Finally, I'd like to say that in my experience, there have been some women who were healthy and mature enough to understand that height doesn't matter (being taller than them was enough) and that it mattered more if she could be "listened to" in a certain way by you, as well as trusting in your abilities.
