"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Height increase

djtdot

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Well this is not one of those stupid threads where people ask for ways to increase height. But today I was measuring my height, its 5'9.5 ish, only a month or so ago it was 5'8.5 ish. I still have my markings on the wall from a month or so showing my old height. There is a clear difference of an inch or so :D.I am sooooo happy. I wish I could somehow hit 5'11 or 6'0. Then it would be awesome!!!

Any ideas how it increased so drastically? Coz till grade 9 or 10 I was like one of the top 3-4 tallest people in my class. But then I dunno what happened my growth stalled and I remained at this height for atleast 3-4 years while my other shorter friends outgrew me, and now suddenly booooom all of a sudden this height increase!!!.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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donjuanjovi

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Seems a little late for a growth spurt, but I guess anything is possible!
 

Deadly_Ripped

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I am 21 and I just hit 6'0. I was 5'11 with shoes on 2 years ago. Did you measure with shoes on? A new pair of shoes can add something like an inch to your height instantly.
 

djtdot

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Oh actually I measured them barefooted.

PS: I am just 19, so I hope there is a bit of growth left :D.
 

Skilla_Staz

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I've heard people say men grow into their early 20's.
True? I don't know.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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eminence

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yeah most men keep growing until there 21
 

Adone

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I hope this will happen to me, because I too was used to be the "tall guy" until my freshman year, then I stopped at 5'8 and I've grown half a inch since (I'm 19 too). I'd be satisfied at 5'9, content at 5'10, happy at 5'11 and shocked at 6'0... too bad I'll never be *my perfect height*, 6'3.
 

KillaCam

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Yeah, definately does sound like a late spurt of growth there, usually 20-21 is a good indication of how you will stay.

I'm 17 and a bit and just touched 6"0, so hoopefully I can stretch a bit more out in the next few years :up:
 

kickureface

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have any of you tried to do anything to actively increase the space between your spine and legs? ive heard of the technique, just unsure of the results for many
 

Skilla_Staz

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I've been stuck around 5'8 since 6th grade.

I used to be a giant. Now, I'm slightly shorter than most of my peers.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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BluEyes

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I'm 5'9.


The world was made for people our height. My friends roomie is 6'8 and literally has to duck his head to get in doors. I keep expecting a juggler on a unicycle to pass by and a clown to be with him.

I'm happy with my height, you should be too.
 

wimac489

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hang from a pull up bar for like 30 min. a week minimum. within like 2 months u should grow around 2-4 inches. decompresses the spine and the cartilige inbetween ur discs stretches.
 

Rocko

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wimac489 said:
hang from a pull up bar for like 30 min. a week minimum. within like 2 months u should grow around 2-4 inches. decompresses the spine and the cartilige inbetween ur discs stretches.
that true?
 

Azidoro

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Hypnosis. I have Dr. Laura DeGeorgio's Hypnosis tapes. Work well for me.
 

wimac489

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yea, research it. or just use common sense. think out it, ur cartilige is getting stretched out cuz ur spine is hanging freely and being pulled downward instead of being compressed. gotta admit tho, 30 min. a week is a pain in my arse!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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noneother

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MinisterOfLust said:
Hypnosis. I have Dr. Laura DeGeorgio's Hypnosis tapes. Work well for me.
Is that for growth? Are you able to tell me how it works?
 

noneother

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i hope your not affiliated with the site and trying to make a few bucks. what's your success story with hypnosis?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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