"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Heidi Klum just got engaged

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Heidi Klum just got engaged to be married.

http://celebrityinsider.org/heidi-klum-and-tom-kaulitz-are-engaged-check-out-the-ring-228173/

Heidi Klum is

- 45.5 years old
- former model and actress
- been married two times before
- has four biological children (been pregnant four times)
- with two different men (pregnant three times with one man, pregnant one time with another)

Her fiancé is:

- 29 years old
- a known musician
- good looking
- good height
- net worth $25,000,000

Her fiance: “I know you are a woman who is 16+ years older than me, you have been married twice, have been pregnant 4 times by 2 different men, have been naked in magazines and on the beach, and your looks are deteriorating quickly, YET, I want to make you my WIFE. I want to make a legal contract with you and the state that I will emotionally, physically, mentally, and financially take care of you for the rest of my life. Here is a huge huge ring to express my LOVE and DEVOTION TO YOU.”

Sosuave member:

- avg 29 years old
- average worker
- average looking
- average heught
- net worth $50,000

Sosuave: “Spin plates, spin plates, spin plates, top form SMV 18 - 23. Don’t ever get married. Dont commit. Don’t be a beta loser. Don’t date single moms. Don’t spend money on these girls. These girls don’t mean anything. Just spin plates for LIFE.”

Do Sosuave members know more than the rest of the world? Or am I missing something?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Oh I’m sure it’ll end well.. probably like all her last three marriages lol

Good looking guys get fvcked over more than anyone in the end.. bc they attract the crazies.

Looks aren’t everything.. and the grass isn’t always greener.

The guys a good looking millionaire and settling for a washed up 45 year old with at least three kids and two baby mommas.. thanks but no thanks!
 

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Shows "game" outweight "status+money"
 

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Sorry OP, the bro is getting the better deal.

1) she's still a celeb who cares what she looks like.
2) Child support seems unlikely.
3) Oh yea, she's work 100 million dollars.
4) Huge Hollywood and musical connects.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This guy is smart why do you think he married her Ahhaha did any one know this guy before ? , she’s on that talent show he’s a musician he will be famous soon and dump her ass lol!!
 

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Yea it’s a bit weird. As a known musician with decent looks, he could literally have his pick of just about any woman. Why not get a younger model who doesn’t have so much baggage? He is an idiot. Yes. But he’s still better off than us.
 

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Maybe dude had a massive crush on her in his teens when Hedi was in her prime. That coupled with the fact he probably never in a million years thought it would be a reality to meet her, let alone marry her. Either way good luck to them and be sure to protect what you built there bud.
 

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It’s all for the money boys you watch he will be in the top 100 soon he’s just getting his name out there !!
 

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"Thechamp, post"]It’s all for the money boys you watch he will be in the top 100 songs soon he’s just getting his name out there !!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sosuave member:

- avg 29 years old
- average worker
- average looking
- average heught
- net worth $50,000
Wow, I am one of the wealthier ones around here :cool:, although if normalized to age, I'd probably be average. Also, I think that the average height here is a little on the short side, though still taller than me. :mad:
 

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Eh, she's not my type. I don't mind the thin-model look, but I like a nice waist-to-hips ratio.
 

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For being such a highly educated group of men who claims to know so much about women you guys are really over complicating things..
1. Y’all must be pretty ugly if you think her fiancé is good looking or above average. He’s famous and rich, not good looking.
2. Her vs him on the SM scale, she is WAY more attractive than him even her being the elder.
3. They probably have a great connection, if you ever never met someone and you guys just click then you wouldn’t understand. If there’s another reason they’re marrying then FVCK it, they have a reason.
3. It’s possible they are in love, whether it’s for real or for now, better not to waste life.
4. He’s getting the better deal here, not her. All you you would eat your words for her.
5. He’s definitely entering her frame, would you for guarenteed real fame? For 100 million? For love? Well, that’s up to you
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If you want to date an older woman so badly just do it. No one is stopping you.
Who said anything about wanting to date older woman?

I'll repeat, a 29 year musician, OK looking, OK height, SMV through the roof, worth $24,500,000 US more than the average sosuave member, was desperate to legally, morally, physically and financially COMMIT to a woman who has been PREGNANT FOUR TIMES by TWO DIFFERENT MEN and is 16+years older than him.

Sosuave members, whose net worth is probably 1/500 of him, SMV probably not as high, are telling the world "top form 18-23, netflix of chill, these bvtches don't mean anything, don't value them, don't ever get married, don't commit. SPIN PLATES, SPIN PLATES, SPIN PLATES."

The guy didn't win the lottery either, he earned the money. Shouldn't sosuave members go and get $24,500,000 US more dollars and THEN come tell the world what to do? Or this guy beta?
 

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Who said anything about wanting to date older woman?

I'll repeat, a 29 year musician, OK looking, OK height, SMV through the roof, worth $24,500,000 US more than the average sosuave member, was desperate to legally, morally, physically and financially COMMIT to a woman who has been PREGNANT FOUR TIMES by TWO DIFFERENT MEN and is 16+years older than him.

Sosuave members, whose net worth is probably 1/500 of him, SMV probably not as high, are telling the world "top form 18-23, netflix of chill, these bvtches don't mean anything, don't value them, don't ever get married, don't commit. SPIN PLATES, SPIN PLATES, SPIN PLATES."

The guy didn't win the lottery either, he earned the money. Shouldn't sosuave members go and get $24,500,000 US more dollars and THEN come tell the world what to do? Or this guy beta?
I think the message on these boards for the most part isn’t just spin plates, spin, spin.. it’s invest in to a woman whose worth while. And you can see with a clear head what’s actually going on with that woman rather than being in the mercy of someone else; caught up in someone else’s web

Are you always so emotional, Trump, Or just on this forum?
 

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I think the message on these boards for the most part isn’t just spin plates, spin, spin.. it’s invest in to a woman whose worth while. And you can see with a clear head what’s actually going on with that woman rather than being in the mercy of someone else; caught up in someone else’s web
Fair point. But was is “worthwhile?” You can connect with any woman, can’t you?
 

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Fair point. But was is “worthwhile?” You can connect with any woman, can’t you?
Worthwhile is an ambiguous term and dependent on every individual. But for me, it’s someone who is smart, attractive physically, has ambitions and something they’re chasing that’s important to them, is sweet, kind, caring, loves her family, vulnerable, open, has a willingness to take chances, mature in sensitive topics, has a sense of humour, loyal and values intimacy in all avenues.

I can get a woman talking sure. Or anyone. I’m really empathetic and easy to talk to, friendly, attractive; so people enjoy that on a surface level. And we can call that connecting, okay. But I don’t CONNECT with every woman in a sexual sense. I’m just a normal guy with some good attributes. However I’m flawed and learning just like everyone else.

No one can sexually connect with every woman or attract them, like some idealized perfect DJ some may hold In their minds. That’s like BigDave mentality; he expected to be able to connect with every woman. But if he didn’t, it killed him inside. I would be considered attractive by most (modelled for years when I was 22-26) , but I guarentee there’s some women who are like ‘oh no way, not for me’. I’ve even had women tell me, “you’re too angular, you look like an alien, you’re too intense looking, you’re eyes are too penetrating blah blah).

It’s all about finding people who are in searche for the same meaningfullness as you in life. It takes time and persistence. Just never turn on yourself.

My mom thought prime Brad Pitt or Leonardo wasn’t attractive at all.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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