"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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heeelp - she wants me to close an open-loop

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Hello,

I have already opened with her. Now I'm on the displaying higher value step. She was very attractive today. Every guy was telling her so. Except me of course. But I've almost told her : "Look! remember me to tell you something important..." with important-look. She told me to tell her at the moment, I responded "Not yet, be patient."

Later, she asked me again and I told her "You're not patient you know, I'll tell in a minute" and I didn't told her.

I've got a message on my mobile phone. She couldn't help thinking about that.

Should I tell what everybody was telling her today ?
Should I tell her that I've found her attractive with that white dress ?

While I should be displaying Higher Value ?

Help please
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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youre asking "Should i do what every other guy is doing"..

you already know the answer neo!!

shes txting u cos ur different .. you keep busting on her.. tell her she has a nice white dress and then pull it away from her..

eg:

"nice outfit i like the whiteness of it.. itd make a good ghost outfit if you just threw it over your head.. you know halloween isnt til tommorow right?"

works well becaues it is actually halloween tommorow ;) haha
 
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