"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Heeeelp! She stares at me all the time

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Hello everyone, I'd like some help with this...
I'm new on this school (this means I never talked to her) and well, there is a girl who stares at me all the time, and when I look at her, instead of looking down, she just keep eye contact!
Arght ! I'm not used to this, I mean, this never happened before, Is she interested on me or what? Usually when a girl is interested on me and I look in her eyes, she just looks away..
Now its me who look away :eek:
what should I do? ty
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Check the obvious things first.
  • Is your fly down?
  • Is there a booger fluttering out of your nostrils?
  • Gum in your hair?
  • Ink on your face?
  • Are you just so magnificently handsome that she can't get enough of you?
  • Or is your face like a walking traffic accident, the people don't want to look but can't help themselves?
OK, I jest.
Try this: ASK HER.
"I noticed today that you kept staring at me in class."
"Yea, so?"
"So what's going on? I'm not used to being stared at all the time."
"Oh, it's just because yadda yadda yadda..."

Soon will come the fork in the road, where you will be able to say,
"Yea, I think you're cool too. Care to meet up sometime?"

OR

"Knock that off. It's pissing me off and I don't like it one little bit."
 
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I noticed you undressing me with your eyes today in class... I just wanted to let you know my name is anthony, and Im NOT easy =)
 
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hahahaha

sorry i just saw the thread name and had to read this
 
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Originally posted by yo!
Hello everyone, I'd like some help with this...
I'm new on this school (this means I never talked to her) and well, there is a girl who stares at me all the time, and when I look at her, instead of looking down, she just keep eye contact!
Arght ! I'm not used to this, I mean, this never happened before, Is she interested on me or what? Usually when a girl is interested on me and I look in her eyes, she just looks away..
Now its me who look away :eek:
what should I do? ty
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When you liked a girl you looked them in the eyes, and (you think) they didn't like you because they looked away? Now a girl looks directly at you and you look away? Maybe she's thinking the same thing about you????

She likes you man...she probably REALLY likes you. Go up and say hi, introduce yourself....say SOMETHING to get things going and read the HS bible stickied at the top at the forum


You'll do fine...Have fun
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Mr. Debonaire
hahahaha

sorry i just saw the thread name and had to close this
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fixed for me
 
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