"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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heavy weight/ low reps vs. light weight/ high reps

JayCamx23

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well after working out for a year here is what ive observed. basically up to this point ive done strictly heavy weight low reps. i started out a year ago weighing 150 and could max out benching 7 reps of 115. now i can do 4 reps of 250. ive put on 30 pounds and have gotten noticeably bigger. not to mention i dont work out my legs, just arms and chest. now that ive gotten way stronger, i now wanna focus on not improving my strength, but i now want to shape my arms. my arm muscles are just pretty much big at this point. i want to have rippling muscles rather than just bulk muscle. i want my muscle to show. i dont wanna get any bigger, just wanna be able to slide credit cards through my muscles if you know what i mean. i ask this after my health teacher, who works out intensely and can bench 435, told the girls in my class this; alot of girls worry that working out will make them bigger. his suggestion was to do light weights and high reps. does this sound like something i should do? i think it sounds like it. any ideas?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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nope... just drop your body fat.
 

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high weight low reps is for gaining strength or during a cutting period... LOWER weight and high reps is for gaining pure size... if you wanna be more ripped focus on diet and cardio.. ripped muscles are made in the kitchen
 

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1. Train your legs, unless you wanna look like an idiot.

2. Whether you're bulking or cutting it doesn't matter on reps, sets whatever. You change your diet, not your routine, it sh1ts me when I hear people saying you need to do high reps while you're cutting.
 

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you shouyld actually do lower reps higher weight to maintain strength while cutting... if you were to increase reps and decrease total caloric intake (cutting) you would most certainly catabolize your hard earned muscle.. stick to low reps high weight and get a decent diet rich in whole grains and protein
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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lol rippling muscles is a disease:p Just wanted to share that:cool:

semag knows it, quick and easy, just lose more fat...

Max out your metabolism with anearobics(long twitch muscle training)

SIX meals a day(three meals a day is societally imposed not naturally)

drink tons of water so you don't have water retention(creatine needs extra water to work, so you retain water with it)

Keep a balanced salt intake, not so much that your blood requires water dilution(water weight) and good luck on not having enough in you diet when you eat a healthy meal(it's in nearly everything you eat)... salt is your main source of sodium, so don't forget to eat your daily banana:p(potassium/sodium need balance so your liver and muscles stay strong)

Electrolytes...

Watch your alcohol/caffeine intake, they are diuretics that will rob your muscles of water and will prompt fat cells to increase to maintain a healthy system balance if you reach a mild stage of dehydration.(Ignore the benefits of the stimulant effects of caffeine)

Eat enough complex carbohydrates and vitamin B for energy(to facilitate the calorie burn)

^^^Those are ways to reduce your body's need to store fat^^^
 

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flippinfreak said:
Watch your alcohol/caffeine intake, they are diuretics that will rob your muscles of water
The only people that caffeine causes water loss for are the people who rarely have any.
 

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mrRuckus said:
The only people that caffeine causes water loss for are the people who rarely have any.
Dude, start elaborating on these one sentence posts you keep making to me... I never know completely what you are trying to say to me!

Caffeine causes water loss in EVERYBODY, it is also a mild laxative. It's a stimulant, that affects hormone production.

I don't want to say more, I don't like responding to single line comments that are ambiguous in nature(something you seem to have a knack for;))

What is it your trying to say? Drink lots of caffeine, and match it with water?
 
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