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Heavy Feeling In Nuts After Deadlifts

LoneSilver

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This is a bit personal but last evening after and during my deadlifts I felt heavy in my nuts that findly went away after several hours it was the feeling you get or at least I do when you've been with a woman and you get worked up and you don't have sex.

If I rolled my nuts they would hurt when I'd try to ease the heaviness.

Just want to make sure I am not doing something wrong on my deads but were not talking massive weight here just 175lbs for 6-8 reps of 3 sets.

Thanks for any insight.

LoneSilver
 

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Monster

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Are you hitting yourself in the balls with the bar when you do the deadlift?
 

blinkwatt

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Lol I get that feeling every once and awhile while hitting it hard squatting on the smith.
 

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LoneSilver

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No not hitting my nuts while deadlifting it just felt heavy, full feeling of sorts a little uncomfortable but I got through it but it did interfer with my lifting.

But I am OK now.

LoneSilver
 
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