"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Heartfelt messages turn on or turn off?

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Jack Hensy

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saline chow and devilkingx2. Both brilliant posts. Re-reading posts a 3rd time.
I like this site because the men on here think logically and mathematically about female behavior.

Women are emotional and we can look at what they "respond to" versus what they "say." We can look at what is "real" versus what is "fantasy."
Women can weave a web of deception that does not make sense, can twist a man up, and play on emotions which captivates us.
But from a males perspective, logically women do make sense when we look at the big picture of female behavior.

You can mathematically deduce a woman down to her very core and put the odds in your favor on how she will respond using specific actions.
 

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saline chow and devilkingx2. Both brilliant posts. Re-reading posts a 3rd time.
I like this site because the men on here think logically and mathematically about female behavior.

Women are emotional and we can look at what they "respond to" versus what they "say." We can look at what is "real" versus what is "fantasy."
Women can weave a web of deception that does not make sense, can twist a man up, and play on emotions which captivates us.
But from a males perspective, logically women do make sense when we look at the big picture of female behavior.

You can mathematically deduce a woman down to her very core and put the odds in your favor on how she will respond using specific actions.
Generally the reason women don't make sense is that you'd never do what they do and you find their actions bizarre

But then again, you start understanding women when you start asking yourself "if I responded to Y with X, even though I never normally would, what would that mean?"

So you gotta turn "why won't she text back" to "why wouldn't I text a girl back?" And you'll get your answer and she'll make perfect sense(but probably come off as total b*tch)
 
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