"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Heart of Summer

bigneil

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Today is July 19 which I've always felt was the exact heart of summer. A week or two from now it will be late summer and you'll see back to school crap.

What did you do in Summer of 2017? This is the best week to go camping. Or plan a beach trip.

"But there're just so many summers
And just so many springs"

- Don Henley
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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skinnyguy

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Traveling internationally this week

Got pretty drunk last week

Relaxed and ate good food

Connected with a lot of my friends

Met a bunch of new people

Had good dates
 

Urbanyst

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College starting in the fall means loads of FRESH MEAT coming to my city in the 18-22 age group.

Fall is my favorite season after spring. The weather, the holiday's, the fresh college meat, etc.
 

resilient

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Bonfires, guitar shredding, concerts, and a little surfing.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Prodoge

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New project consisting in restoring a 1983 Ford Capri. Feeling a bit anxious about it since it's the first time i am doing such a big project at 21.

It took me some time to decide weather that is what i wanted or not, and in the end I remembered something I read on SS "When was the last time you did something new?".
 

zekko

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What did you do in Summer of 2017? This is the best week to go camping. Or plan a beach trip.
Well, I need to get my grass mowed in the next couple of days.

Really, this week has been miserably hot and humid. Not my favorite weather at all.
 

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Finally finished restoring my 1983 Yamaha IT 490 beast of a dirt bike. Traveled to a few beaches to enjoy some surfing and scuba. Tossed a couple of plates to the curb, just got tired of them, but incubated 3 new plates one of which is a fvck machine with a porn star mind. Family time has been great, which in my world is the most important.
 

ubercat

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Had a few niggles lately work, injuries, winter bugs and minor financial setbacks. Happy with my bounceback. Kept working out kept connecting. Found a cheap young tennis coach and got some lessons. I'm a solid player but don't have a net game. Sister visited from NZ. But it did feel like holding the line sometimes. Time for some new starts. Joined a couple of hiking groups since g/f and I like nature. First hike early tomorrow morning. Going to start looking for a new gig because I've been a government for the last 3 years. I've always had a balance of private sector and public on the resume so I'd prefer not to get pigeonholed. My current job is a kind of hybrid project manager role and I d prefer to move into a proper PM gig. And my motorbike has been rusting in peace. My mates coming round next weekend to help me get it going.
 
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