Think we've covered all the excuses women give when they aren't interested? We haven't even scratched the surface apparently! I got the line "you're a lot of fun, but a little too much fun for me. I'm boring. Good luck to you!":crackup: So guys, beware, you can be too much fun!lol I seriously miss the days when I was younger and didn't have to deal with all of this bull$hit.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Heard a new blow off line last night
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
They have a million of em, you just gotta mess back with em. I was at a club once in Europe with a bunch of local friends. At this club there were a lot of English uppity chicks there. My friend, a local, starts mackin on 2 chicks right in front of us, real hard, didn't give a shıt. He asks "what, don't you like guys?" , and instantly one of the English girls looks over her shoulder in a snobbish way and says "we're lesbians!" to get rid of him. He immediately looks her dead in the eye and says "that's, ok, I'm a motherfückin transvestite!"
Man, those English bıtches took off like the wind! We were laughin our asses off. Good times. Don't let it get to ya, that's the secret.
Man, those English bıtches took off like the wind! We were laughin our asses off. Good times. Don't let it get to ya, that's the secret.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
nismo-4
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At the end of the day, you got rejected and she's not interested. Shooting back shows her that you care more than she does and let's face it, she decided your value wasn't high enough for her and she thinks she can do better.
A rejection is a rejection. Drop her (She already dropped you) and move on.
Case closed.
A rejection is a rejection. Drop her (She already dropped you) and move on.
Case closed.