"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Heads Up Fellas, It's That Time Of The Year.

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Be prepared for extremely high flaking and rejection, its the least wonderful time of the year for picking up chicks.

During the holiday rush, not only are girls more likely to get Boyfriends to avoid being alone during the holidays, but they are less likely to go out and are more likely to be super busy with family and holiday obligations. If you want to dig deeper, you can find a lot of evidence to support the idea that humans have a mating season that begins in early spring. Or as the Guidos call it "Pool Season."

This shouldn't demotivate you, as much as it should teach you to focus more on your own family and holiday obligations rather than thinking you're going top go out and rack up a ton of lays around the holidays.

You've been warned.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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You do realize the most popular month for birthdays is September.. :flowers:
 

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I'm hoping your wrong. My work load for the next few weeks is low because of holidays and just finished a project so I'm hoping to get out and bang some girls. Once Jan hits I'm hit with another large project and won't get out much til end of March.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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During the holiday rush, not only are girls more likely to get Boyfriends to avoid being alone during the holidays
Seems to me like this offers opportunities for us. I'd be happy to fulfill their wish for a boyfriend! (of course I won't be her boyfriend, that's just what she thinks, lol.)

I picked up a girl at the club, last weekend. At one point the DJ started playing one of all those Christmas songs that return on the radio each year around this time. She said: "Oh no, not this song..." I told her: "Why don't you like it?" She responded: "All these Christmas songs make me feel depressed..." The moment she said it, she immediately got a look on her face like 'oops, I shouldn't have told him that' and quickly said "Uhh, I mean, it's way too early to play those songs yet...". First thing that got to my mind was, "Great, I'm gonna take advantage of this! She'll be very happy to get my attention during the next weeks, when she feels cold and alone, longing for someone to love her... Shit, it's kinda the same thing as when they just broke up, they're vulnerable... Just need to take the right approach and take advantage of it!
 

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Why do you guys make these kinds of sweeping, mass generalization cry baby threads? I got a ton of action on the week of the last New Years (3 girls in one week).
 

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blueline said:
Why do you guys make these kinds of sweeping, mass generalization cry baby threads? I got a ton of action on the week of the last New Years (3 girls in one week).
lol, yeah. He negged me for pointing out that at least some scientific evidence exists pointing to December as the most "active" month of the year. Some people are just determined to be negative. God help you if you parade on their rain.
 

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I mean, first it was the "Clubs just aren't the same anymore :(!! Nobody can get laid there, it's just girls attention whoring!!" and now it's this bull****. It's pretty simple. Maybe you just can't get laid there ;).
 

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Christmas is the least wonderful time of the year for cold approaches (daygame), as their minds are on family and Christmas shopping.

It's the most wonderful time of the year, though, for online game. These girls are feeling the pain (and to them, embarassment) of being alone on Christmas. If you want to try your hand at online game now is the time to create a profile and watch them flock to you.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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blueline said:
I mean, first it was the "Clubs just aren't the same anymore :(!! Nobody can get laid there, it's just girls attention whoring!!" and now it's this bull****. It's pretty simple. Maybe you just can't get laid there ;).
I've never said clubs weren't the same anymore frank.

I'm 22, I started going clubbing when I was 17 years old. However, I have said that it was EASIER to bang a chick a few a years ago, hell even to take a random girl out.

You got laid from your social circle 3 times, either by the same girl 3 times, but not 3 random girls in the club.

If not, pics or it never happend.
 

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
This is her first Christmas out of a 3 year LTR. Your post explains everything!
Here you're talking about some chick in your social circle or girl you fvcked ages ago, and you make a sweeping conclusion on that one isolated situation, that, no, girls aren't that busy during christmas period and its all hearsay. The New Years Eve is actually a good time to get laid and hook-up, bet you'll agree to that though?

You don't get laid tons, or aren't out picking up 4-6 times a week, this doesn't apply to you hipster.
 

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Atom Smasher said:
It's the most wonderful time of the year, though, for online game. These girls are feeling the pain (and to them, embarassment) of being alone on Christmas. If you want to try your hand at online game now is the time to create a profile and watch them flock to you.
This.

I've noticed an appreciable rise in talent on online dating sites lately? A few months back POF was a reserve for whales, attention-*****s and freaks, but I'm starting to see more cute, socially well-adjusted girls pop up on the site.

I imagine in these cold, dark winter months girls are less inclined to put on that miniskirt and head out for a night on the town. It's -12 (CELSIUS) overnight in my city right now. The town an hour over got dumped with a metre of snow and effectively shut down for the remainder of the week.

I imagine it's easy to feel cold and lonely in these dark winter months trapped inside. The nesting instinct is strong.

Is online dating better in the winter?
 

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too much generalizations in this thread. all i see is pathetic guys talking and giving excuses to why they can't laid while others are busy out there doing it.

OHH, i can't talk to this girl or that girl because their minds are pretty much occupied with christmas family shopping etc, lemme take the easy way out....pathetic really. All you guys do is fvcking whine and complain about everything that's wrong with the world instead of appreciating things that are right with it. stop fvcking whining and complaining and actually do something about it.
 

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teacha said:
too much generalizations in this thread. all i see is pathetic guys talking and giving excuses to why they can't laid while others are busy out there doing it.

OHH, i can't talk to this girl or that girl because their minds are pretty much occupied with christmas family shopping etc, lemme take the easy way out....pathetic really. All you guys do is fvcking whine and complain about everything that's wrong with the world instead of appreciating things that are right with it. stop fvcking whining and complaining and actually do something about it.
Just got rejected during christmas shopping brah?

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Y U mad tho?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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teacha said:
too much generalizations in this thread. all i see is pathetic guys talking and giving excuses to why they can't laid while others are busy out there doing it.

OHH, i can't talk to this girl or that girl because their minds are pretty much occupied with christmas family shopping etc, lemme take the easy way out....pathetic really. All you guys do is fvcking whine and complain about everything that's wrong with the world instead of appreciating things that are right with it. stop fvcking whining and complaining and actually do something about it.
You are basically whining and complaining about what some random people have to say on an internet message board.

teacha = PWNED
 

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When I delivered pizzas in December back when I was in New Orleans, I was able to get some action by flirting with customers. The house would be warm if there was a fireplace, and I had candles plus one of them candle guns to light them. I'd even have a pizza ready in some cases (I got 'em for free), really helped when these women were moms.

I say Valentine's day is where attention wh0res come out of the woodworks. I do all my holiday shopping early (I did my Mother's day shopping in March, Valentine's day shopping in January, and my Christmas shopping in June & July) on ebay to beat that traffic. When I go in malls during Christmas (North Dallas area), I sometimes go narcissist and say to girls I shopped early. It got me a lot of responses and was a great ice breaker! They say stuff like "What you bought me?" and "I hope you got me that new diamond pendant!" I followed up with a witticism and it worked for me!

I only buy gifts for the family. For other women who want me to buy them stuff, I don't.
 

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omkara said:
You are basically whining and complaining about what some random people have to say on an internet message board.

teacha = PWNED
Cosign.

I'm still waiting for teacha to teach me something.
 
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