"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Heading towards Friendzone, possible to turn it around?

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Ok, once a girl starts to think of you as a friend (the girl I'm thinking of is not a particularly close "friend" but it's probably going that way unless I become BF material) is it possible to reverse this process? We're not friends yet, but I met her just after I started learning this stuff and think that it's something to do with the way I handled myself then. I've had considerable sucess since I began the learning process here and practicing it, but I'm not sure whether this one is worth my time. Don't tell me to go fvck another 12 women and see if she's still important, because I'm looking for a girlfriend, not a FB and even though I've been with others since I met her even I still want to see if anything can happen with us, if not, ah well fvck it and I'll go looking for someone else then.

Cheers,
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Kino and make a move,your only enemy here is time.The more you let time pass the deeper you get in FZ.
 

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GloriouslyInsane said:
Kino and make a move,your only enemy here is time.The more you let time pass the deeper you get in FZ.
****! That's it! I read about Kino after I already knew this girl, and had hardly touched her at all, even though I apply kino with all other girls I meet now, I can't believe this slipped my mind. I'll turn up the kino dramatically, but give her a little time to adjust to it but tbh I think this could be a lost cause :eek:
Heh, you live an learn. Kino is vital - it's understood.
 
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