"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Heading towards Friendzone, possible to turn it around?

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Ok, once a girl starts to think of you as a friend (the girl I'm thinking of is not a particularly close "friend" but it's probably going that way unless I become BF material) is it possible to reverse this process? We're not friends yet, but I met her just after I started learning this stuff and think that it's something to do with the way I handled myself then. I've had considerable sucess since I began the learning process here and practicing it, but I'm not sure whether this one is worth my time. Don't tell me to go fvck another 12 women and see if she's still important, because I'm looking for a girlfriend, not a FB and even though I've been with others since I met her even I still want to see if anything can happen with us, if not, ah well fvck it and I'll go looking for someone else then.

Cheers,
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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GloriouslyInsane

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Kino and make a move,your only enemy here is time.The more you let time pass the deeper you get in FZ.
 

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GloriouslyInsane said:
Kino and make a move,your only enemy here is time.The more you let time pass the deeper you get in FZ.
****! That's it! I read about Kino after I already knew this girl, and had hardly touched her at all, even though I apply kino with all other girls I meet now, I can't believe this slipped my mind. I'll turn up the kino dramatically, but give her a little time to adjust to it but tbh I think this could be a lost cause :eek:
Heh, you live an learn. Kino is vital - it's understood.
 
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