"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Heading to the club this saturday. What to test....

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don't pick up girls at a club...and if you do, be very careful!!!

fvck her with the lights on...and make sure you know her pretty well before you go for it

DO NOT GO DOWN ON HER

just be careful man...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I had a bi-wing a while back(kudos to you for that, btw) and found that she was far more productive in more personal atmospheres than at bars and clubs; Small parties and sh*t like that was where it would fly best. Are you seeing the same thing?

I would set up gatherings and have her invite most of the people and just call on a few close friends myself. Usually led to good things.
 

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I know H2O... what do you think my "run from psychos" comment comes from :rolleyes:

@Coldcoal. Huh? thanks to me? Oh yeah! I remember now...

and yeah, I know what you mean, small social gatherings seems to work best... I hosted parties every other weekend for 2 years, but I can't do that anymore.. living with the folks again...

but you've given me a good idea... a pre-party, with just some of my mates, some of hers, say 10-12 people, mixed singles and couples, drinking, chatting and "warming up" before heading to the club.....

could work... I'll see if I can't arrange it for next time my old folks are out of town..

//Deus
 

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Try getting just drunk enough. I discovered last week that just the right amount of alcohol in your system can help you to meet girls at the club and pass the breathalizer in the same night.
 

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Hmm.. this was odd.

My AFC mate, apparently doesn't want her YAY he's snapped out of it!!!
Darn, still AFC, but atleast ain't Oneitis anymore..

So, now my other mate (half AFC, he's seen the light, but not quite snapped out of it..I'm trying to help him out though), will most probably start hitting on her.. *grumbles...*

Now, I sure as hell don't want anyone that one of my mates (ANY of my close mates) are interested in, so I'll REALLY toss her into the "friends" folder.

Oddly though, she just texted me.. (I didn't have her number).

First one simply said; "I've dyed my hair red". (she know's I'm a moron for red heads.. )

second one said; "there, now you have my number, Hugs //Name".

So, I decided to play it cool, and answered "are you sure? ;)".

to which she replied; "not totally..... =D".

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Geez. I just hope to god she doesn't have the hots for me or something.

For once, I've actually found a girl that I'd like to have as a friend. STRICTLY a friend, and from time to time, a wing"man".. (ie, not GF, f-buddy or something like that).

Bah, I'll just try to toss her at my mate, the half-AFC and see what happens. God knows I've tried to set him up enugh times... but the law of probability should prevail, sooner or later I WILL hook him up with someone, and watch it actually click!

Ah well, that's the half-week report, I MIGHT be heading out this saturday aswell, though I'm running short on cash. I wanna save some for when my MAIN MAN mate shows up the 23rd. (I get payed the 25th) he's a DJ to his fingertips, but goes to a uni somewhat 6 hours away... so we're gonna party like 'ell that weekend.

//Deus, da troubled one...

PS, I might have figured it out... for once, when I don't got the hots for a girl, SHE becomes interested instead.. just my luck, but since I've been trying out all sorts of DJ theories from this board on her, apparently some of them might have worked...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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