"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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heading overseas- leaving girlfriend

senor boom boom

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i'm travelling overseas for three months at the end of the year. i'm currently seeing a great girl and everything is going really well. we've been going out about 5 months and i've been planning this trip for about 9 months (so before she came on the scene). i don't want to break up with her and neither does she (we have talked about this), but i also want to really enjoy my time overseas meeting new people (including some beautiful ladies). i'm not sure whether to tell her i may pick up while away or to not say anything.

it is likely- given the chance- i will score another girl overseas and i know this is bad for the relationship (and somewhat low) but i dont want to look back on my trip in a few years and not be able to say i fully enjoyed all that was on offer

anyone been in this situation??

anyone got advice on what to say to her before or after the trip??

i dont want to jeapeordize the relationship

cheers
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Centaurion

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go overseas. Call her once in a while, send her some postcards and keep on boning some foreign chicks. Its not like she's gonna know what you are doing there.
 

Dukester

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Originally posted by Centaurion
go overseas. Call her once in a while, send her some postcards and keep on boning some foreign chicks. Its not like she's gonna know what you are doing there.
unless your dumb azz conscience overrulls you and you decide to tell her. other than that- i agree w/ you
 

Alen-Delon

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i have. well its not that hard depends on where you going. see i went to India, and Pakistan. i was there for 2 month. fuken smokin hash and banging some chicks. but i also was there on a project. i would call my gf 3 2 times a week telling her how shyt was rough down there while tokin on hash bowl. :) anyway all i want to say is keep good contact with her and tell her your keeping pretty bussy with the shyt your gonna be doing. and when you go back to your home country. dont have any langerine in your suit case and any pictures of chicks with you. ohh and fuk the living shyt out of her when you comeback so she wont assume you were getting some while down there.

P.S where you going anyway ?

peace hope it helps
 
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