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headaches during lifting
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it was on the leg press. it was at the back of my head and it hurt
definately go to the doc. try stretching out really well and make sure your back is well aligned.
if your doc says something can you let me know? i want to get to the doc too but i dont know when i can
its probably nothing serious, usually isnt, but i would advise not doing anything that would cause the headaches, including heavy lifting and sex
Heizen
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Funny you put those two things in the same catagory
I suggest that if you somehow have these two things next to each other in your mind, that you get your girlfriend on weight watchers MrFitness880
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- i think i might have mis-spoke. i was thinking more like things that would cause a buildup or stress/tension/pressure something like that Anyway I've talked to a physical therapist, a personal trainer/massage therapist, and made a call to the doc
all said that i should be fine. the p therapist suggestion it might have been some sort of muscle spasm, the pt/m therapist suggested a slight misalignment in the back that might cause a buildup of pressure which to me sounds equally or more plausable, and the doc just said unless i start losing conciousness i should be fine...just to use discretion in my actions.
i still wake up with headaches, and my lower back and and neck are still a little sensitive, but i think thats because of my mattress here at home, not or not entirely the result of that workout.
i dont know how much of this applies to you, and of course does not take tha place of medical advice from a professional who is aware of your specific circumstance, but i hope it helps a bit at least
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