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styleman

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When a girl lays their head on your shoulder, what's the best reaction...?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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oakraiderz2

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Pee on her.
 

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Pshhh... you're thinking about this in the wrong way.
It's not like, "girl puts head on shoulder --> execute Z maneuver."

Her head's on your shoulder, she's kino'ing you. Is this in public? In private? How long? What's the mood? In any case, if a girl is touching you, don't think, just escalate. Grab her, turn her towards you and hug her. Tease her a little, mess up her hair. Get playful. Get sexual. Whisper in her ear. Wrap your arm around her, grab her tight, rub your hand firmly up and down her side.

And whatever you do, don't let her put her head on your shoulder in a friendzone kindof comfort space way. If that's the case, tease her, mess around with her a little bit. You don't want a girl to be that comfortable with you that she could fall asleep on your shoulder - you want her to be startled with the knowledge that at any time, you two could wind up f*cking each other. After you're hooking up, sure - the head&shoulder thing isn't bad.
 

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When a girl lays her head on your shoulder, it usually means she feels comfortable being with you.

I usually put my arm around her and look down at her head. Usually, when you look at her she turns her head up to look at you. This is the perfect time to go for a long, passionate kiss.
 

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