"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Head on shoulder

styleman

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 3, 2005
Messages
368
Reaction score
1
When a girl lays their head on your shoulder, what's the best reaction...?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

oakraiderz2

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 26, 2002
Messages
4,626
Reaction score
28
Age
40
Location
Colorado
Pee on her.
 

stubbornlights

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 25, 2006
Messages
77
Reaction score
0
Location
Canada
Pshhh... you're thinking about this in the wrong way.
It's not like, "girl puts head on shoulder --> execute Z maneuver."

Her head's on your shoulder, she's kino'ing you. Is this in public? In private? How long? What's the mood? In any case, if a girl is touching you, don't think, just escalate. Grab her, turn her towards you and hug her. Tease her a little, mess up her hair. Get playful. Get sexual. Whisper in her ear. Wrap your arm around her, grab her tight, rub your hand firmly up and down her side.

And whatever you do, don't let her put her head on your shoulder in a friendzone kindof comfort space way. If that's the case, tease her, mess around with her a little bit. You don't want a girl to be that comfortable with you that she could fall asleep on your shoulder - you want her to be startled with the knowledge that at any time, you two could wind up f*cking each other. After you're hooking up, sure - the head&shoulder thing isn't bad.
 

Dannyrt34

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 26, 2006
Messages
684
Reaction score
20
Age
40
Location
Belle Vernon, PA
When a girl lays her head on your shoulder, it usually means she feels comfortable being with you.

I usually put my arm around her and look down at her head. Usually, when you look at her she turns her head up to look at you. This is the perfect time to go for a long, passionate kiss.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Top