"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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He Who Hesitates....masturbates

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I MET A CHIC FROM one of those adult encounters this afternoon.

I emailed her using a clever email template, she responded, I asked to meet for a drink, we did.

7 minutes after meeting this complete stranger from the internet at a bar, I said the words "wow you live closeby and your house is empty.......so what are we doing here. She yells "waitress check please"

See the interesting part is, I never talked about sex online, I never called her up and suggested ANY sexual innuendo........just met, then headed back to her place to get some.

FROM EMAIL TO FEMALE IN less than 30 minutes. It does happen fella's, it's all about timing and going for it right then and there.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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oh one more thing this aint an isolated incident either. Two days earlier i met this other chic and right after we met she said her mother will be coming over so I cant be that long. No I didnt do them both...........LOL.

Even though she kinda shut me down, We played pool, had a few drinks and like an hour later she says...did U want to see my boobs. (cause I asked if they were real).........so I almost choked on my drink and said SURE!!!!

I felt em, licked them and then she gave me a rock star kiss.........she also gave me another peek at the lower half. Now keep in mind this is at a public club house, durring the day.

I am not ruling out the alcohol but hey, every once in a while, chics get down right naughty.......and meeting these women at first glance I would have never guessed.
 

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should have kept it to 30 min..

COD said:
Even though she kinda shut me down, We played pool, had a few drinks and like an hour later she says...

the reason your other one was success was cause there were no HOUR LATER.. fact of the matter is a lot of us are really different and when you get to know each other your incompatible.. by keeping your mouth shut and keeping time short you letting her imagination fly (i.e. painting you into someone your not).. you should have gotten the check quicker with this one too... maybe more drinks... for hooking up, the less you talk the better your off..

by the way what is site did you use? :)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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TruthHurts said:
the reason your other one was success was cause there were no HOUR LATER.. fact of the matter is a lot of us are really different and when you get to know each other your incompatible.. by keeping your mouth shut and keeping time short you letting her imagination fly (i.e. painting you into someone your not).. you should have gotten the check quicker with this one too... maybe more drinks... for hooking up, the less you talk the better your off..

interesting point...
 

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What do you mean by adult encounters? Is it an online site... or I dunno, what is it?
 

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It was probably adultfriendfinder.com, but I could be wrong. I have met chicks from there (hot ones too) and had sex with them within 5 mins of laying eyes on them when we met.
 

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pics or it didnt happen



















jk, but those do sond a little too far fetched
 

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Explain!!!

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but those do sond a little too far fetched
what exactly sounds far fetched!?!?!

he didnt describe anything special or out of ordinary... in fact very common..
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The funny thing is the OP didn't say what happened after she yelled for the check.

My impression is she yelled for the check do get away from him and end the "encounter".
 
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Hmm by keeping you mouth shut. Gives me an idea, wut if you could play the "mute bad-ass". I wonder if that would get you laid, cuz damn your a complete mystery cuz you cant tell about yourself, and you would be the best listener, lol. Id give it a try myself but Im in highschool and people know I can talk, but some1 shud give it a try just as a joke and in fun to see if it works.
 

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COD, ure just ****ing with *****as and thats all, thats the easiest thing to do, those r the easiest girls to get their clothes off, n thats all u did. well com here and let me see u do all this with those normal girls here
 

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Georgey said:
let me see u do all this with those normal girls here
Same sh.t just different approach... i.e. might have to be less aggressive..

but guess what... one of my last "normal" girls... white, from good family, from good college, masters in engeneering from expensive school... currently almost done with law school..

anyways.. get this good girl in bed first night... take off her ****.. Her Nipples are pierced.... How about them apples.. Even with my experience.. I would have fckin never guessed!!!!! likes girlz.. too

what is normal? you cant tell by looking at it... bet you didnt know a lot of normal girls on some of those sites...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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