He wants me to think of something he can give me for my b-day...Why?

[DreamyChick]

Okay so what does this guy mean by this...
My b-day is coming up and this guy goes I'll give you a b-day present (b-day is next week).
So I am like what kind of present. He was like think of something creative. So I was like what are my options. Like dinner movie, you buying me something..what? Before you guys blast me he brought up giving me a b-day present so I am not being a gold digger.

He got really quiet and I was like what are you talking about. It seemed like he was implying something. So he was like just think of something ask me and ill say yes or no. So guys can I really ask for anything? Is this a test? Can I ask for sex?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Ask for anything reasonable that your guy is capable of giving you.

 

[DreamyChick]

That's the problem I am not sure what he is capable of or willing to give me thats why I asked what he was thinking of.

 

[DreamyChick]

that sounds good. ill suggest it. Thanks.

 

[flexion_]

Its a bit odd for him to ask you what you want for your b-day. I suppose the best response as others have said... let him take you out and if things are fun you can treat him to some frisky desert afterwards.

Don't get into any gift crap.

 

[DreamyChick]

I thought it was weird too, so I said why are you asking me when its my b-day. There was lots of silence and he didnt want to answer me, so finally he says think of something and I'll say yes or no. But he wants me to be creative about what I ask. I don't know what to ask for exactly. I just want to say sex and see how he reacts.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Its a bit odd for him to ask you what you want for your b-day. I suppose the best response as others have said... let him take you out and if things are fun you can treat him to some frisky desert afterwards.

Don't get into any gift crap.

You can't be serious, it's the smartest thing for him to do because he has no idea what she wants. Other than just giving her some money, it would be a hell of a lot easier just to ask her and then get it.

 

[DreamyChick]

But I thought giving gifts should come out of thought. So shouldn't he think of something and put thought into it? I am mean that's what I've been taught that it doesnt have to be expensive as long as its thoughtful. Am I wrong?

 

[SamePendo]

So Rollo just preached to deaf ears?

 

[DreamyChick]

I simply want this guy to make some decisions rather than ask me. I know what rollo said. I would like this guy to plan something for a change. He has been asking me to come up with things for the past year. I am tired of it. He needs to take action. He's somewhat of a control freak

 

[SamePendo]

I simply want this guy to . . . I would like this guy to plan something for a change. . . I am tired of it. He needs to take action. He's somewhat of a control freak

I'm sure you know what Rollo said. I'm not sure if you understood and learnt from it and absorbed its content.

 

[spesmilitis]

Ask for something that he's normally wouldn't do in bed. Its your birthday. You can have sex anytime, ask for something most guys wouldn't do.

 

[DreamyChick]

Hey guys I have decided on something that he can do for my b-day that won't cost him any money and I'll really enjoy.

LOL Sex...nah I have this telescope that has been in my closet for years and i'd like to take it out and go somewhere dark and look at the stars in the night sky.

 

[The Juan and only]

This is getting troll-licious, dreamychick. You've been here for quite while asking similar questions and ignoring the answers.

"he wants to buy me something for my bday...why?"

WHY?? jesus christ. You seem to be an intelligent person, and yet you repeatedly ask simple, obvious, and common-sense style questions while completely ignoring any advice we give you.

You could be for real, but my instict leans towards a skilled hoaxer. The lengths people go to in order to amuse themselves on the net...I mean really...it boggles the mind.

 

[DreamyChick]

True I could be I just dont have much experience with guys. For most of my life ive been shy. Plus I have major oneitis for this guy. Don't know why, We are completely opposite. He's a science geek who doesnt get creeped out by blood or dead things, a vegitarian, popular in school, just about all the things I am not or wasn't at the time. I am going to stop being hung up on his words and look at his actions. I will get him out of my system yet.

But I am going to change the subject you live in the UK are you around London. I am traveling to London in October and would like to know what I shouldn't miss while I am there

 

[DreamyChick]

2 days have passed since my b-day and I didn't even get an email saying happy b-day. Last year when we werent talking he told me happy b-day so I think that something is wrong with this picture. He can't blame this and say he forgot when he brought up my b-day last weekend. I will never understand some guys.

His b-day is next week and I'd like to "forget" that. I told him I didn't want to make it a big deal but a happy b-day would have been nice.

 

[DonJuanForever]

Hey Dreamy Chick baby, in all honesty, I think you on the wrong site babe.

"Okay so what does this guy mean by this...He was like think of something creative. .... Can I ask for sex?....he never called me..."

Baby listen, theres a female don juan forum, you should go there boo. Even if I told you what he meant by it, lol you wouldn't understand it.

Just go find another board baby.

 

[ValleyDJing]

True I could be I just dont have much experience with guys. For most of my life ive been shy. Plus I have major oneitis for this guy. Don't know why, We are completely opposite. He's a science geek who doesnt get creeped out by blood or dead things, a vegitarian, popular in school, just about all the things I am not or wasn't at the time. I am going to stop being hung up on his words and look at his actions. I will get him out of my system yet.

But I am going to change the subject you live in the UK are you around London. I am traveling to London in October and would like to know what I shouldn't miss while I am there

a vegetarian? what are you doing having oneitis for a pansy like that?

 

[CyranoDeBergerac]

Dreamychck, I hate you. Always have, always will.

-CyranoDeBergerac

 

[zerocelcius]

I think he was talking out his ass. He opened up his mouth words came out and he ran with it. Thinking about it less than when he actually said it the next day. The mystery he spun on it is proof... "think about somthing creative and ask me... I will say yes or no..."

HOW the hell are you going to ever get it right if it is CREATIVE!!!

Those words were pure air with a hint the last thing he ate, and nothing more!

Sorry but hey... Happy Birthday!