Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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He wants me to think of something he can give me for my b-day...Why?

DreamyChick

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zerocelcius said:
I think he was talking out his ass. He opened up his mouth words came out and he ran with it. Thinking about it less than when he actually said it the next day. The mystery he spun on it is proof... "think about somthing creative and ask me... I will say yes or no..."

HOW the hell are you going to ever get it right if it is CREATIVE!!!

Those words were pure air with a hint the last thing he ate, and nothing more!

Sorry but hey... Happy Birthday!:up:
Yeah I think you're right. Check out the email I received yesterday.

He wrote:

How was it on the 26th? how does 25 feel?

So he remembered that I had my b-day on tuesday and still chose not to tell me happy b-day. I think that is messed up.

Well, I know his b-day is next thursday and I may do the very same thing. But really it's ridiculous.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Warboss Alex

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A thoughtful and considerate boyfriend shouldn't have to ask. They'd know exactly what to get, just by going out with their other half and seeing what they like, what clothes they like, jewelry, games, whatever. When you get to know someone, you'll know what they like if you make the effort to do your research.

Whenever I see something I think my sweetheart'd like, I buy it then and there. Sure it gets expensive, but it's really appreciated. :)

I've bought her anything from toys (age range was 4-6 but they were cute) to graphics tablets.. plus clothes, jewelry, music, a ton of chocolate, anything really.

*is in a sappy mood*
 
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