"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"He is so HOT"

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What are women trying to do when they tell you how they think some actor on a show is hot? This girl was texting me whilst we were watching TV and made comments on how this actor was so hot, then proceeded to ask me which women I found attractive on that show.

Your thoughts?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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i don't know. but that exact same thing happened to me once a long time ago with a girl i knew. turned out she was somewhat of an attention wh0re.

she also told me to come over to drink with her and screw. i never accepted her offers to hang out. i flaked pretty much every time.

but that's just my experience. better wait for some more experienced responses.

perhaps she likes you though, is what i think.
 
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I had the same thing happen with my ex before I got together with her.. It's as if she was trying to test me if I was a jelous type of person. I'm not sure, but that's what it felt like!
 
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bloody hell!

guys, it really doesnt mean much! haven't you ever hear your own mothers say "oh, Richard gear is so handsom! oh, Kevin Costner is so sexy" and so on...

Whenever a girl says that, just say "yeh, I can see what you mean, I guess he is pretty good looking"

Just show that you are not phased by it and that you are confident enough about your self and your sexuality to be able to comment on a guy's looks!

If she asks who you find attractive, just say anyone! It really doesnt matter. In my experience though, it helps to go for someone with similar features! for example, if you girl has blonde hair & blue eyes, DONT say Hale Berry or Salma Hayek! :)
 
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Im with Fash. This is another case of someone taking Don Juan philosophies to far. Your reading into this **** toooo much. Everyone says who they think is a fit celeb. This is a bit of a pointless topic as its pure fluff talk if you ask me.

I would just say who i think is the fittest celeb. Elisha Cuthbert for me personally. Just say which girl you think is hot in that show.

like i said........fluff talk...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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KarmaSutra said:
I agree with Mr. Catsup. Abso-tively pointless drivel.
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Mr Catsup :confused:

Is that ment to be a poor play on my name?
 
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She thinks that guy on tv is hot.

How is that a test?
 
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It "could" be a test,if you stay silent, say something like "he's gay/its all makeup" etc is bad,if you say "he's nothing compared to me etc" you come too arrogant.I will agree though that;s most probably fluff talk.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I hate to step on anyones toes, but it isn't a friggin test, it isn't a sign, it's nothing. Period.

I, for one, tell women all the time that Natasha Bedingfield is my future wife and Jessica Simpson is going to be my girlfriend on the side. It doesn't mean a thing. Actually, it does. It means that they think the celebrity is hot. OMG! REVELATION!
 
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