HBOreo has pi$$ed me off for the last time!!!!!!

[Tantric]

Okay...for those of you who don't know...HBOreo (HB9 runway model) and i have had a very "odd" relationship. She asks me out...then she bails...i ask her out and she flakes. I only call her once a week or so...she never calls, nor returns my calls. Yet in the midsts of this, she'll come over to my place and fvck after school.

She has told me that the guy she was dating before me ended up gay....she's scared of getting into a "relationship" due to past abusive fiance of 3 years (i was the next guy after him. Though she has dated guys since her breakup in April, i was the next guy she slept with...so she says)..a few weeks ago, her step dad left a note on her mom's counter saying he was leaving her, so she has been providing MAJOR emotional support for her mom.

She blames all of her flakyness and lack of phone communication on all these things.

I fvcked her last Wednesday (almost 2 weeks ago), and i called her up a few days later (Sunday) to chat as i had a busy weekend...i left a message...she didn't call back. I saw her at school on Thursday, we didn't speak much and she didn't mention anything about my phone call...Yet she waited for me at the end of class to drive me home. I saw her waiting, and I just turned around and did my own ****. Then she came chasing after me, wondering where i was.

She drives me home. She is flying home for xmas and leaving Tuesday, so she gave me a LOOOOONNNG hug, kinda "sighed" during it, and wished me a good xmas. I knew she was really tired, but i invited her up anyway and she elected not to. She says that she is busy Sunday, but free on Saturday to get together. Well...to be honest...with all the FLAKING she's been doing, i really didn't take her seriously. I didn't make any definite plans with her as i knew she was going to flake anyway, so i just told her to call me on Friday...she didn't...hmmm...what a surprise.

Basically, this chick will never spend time with me outside of my apartment, or call me...yet at the same time, i know she talks constantly on the phone to her other friends (guys and girls) and she hangs out with them...

Go figure...I'm REALLY pi$$ed off. Yeah, i know i shouldn't care, but with all the build-up...the flaking...the lack of phone calls...the excuses...it's taken its toll. I've NEVER had a chick treat me as shytty as this!

So now I want to call this chick up, and confront her on all the bullshyt, but i don't know if i;m over reacting and it would be AFC...part of me thinks it might help my situation...

or should i just let it go and never speak to her again?

Ideas?

 

[Kineti[C]harm]

she uses you for sex, why care?

 

[drixsa]

IDEAS? YES!

forget about her.

this is the last time i am going to post on the subject.

she has shown too many red flags too early on.

you would never be happy in a relationship with her b/c she has too many weird situations in her life.

yes im sure shes a good time in bed, but so can most girls.

let this be a lesson to you that emotions shouldnt get involved and that you always should be able to walk away.

time to go out and find some more girls.

She has to know what she took for granted

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Dude - you told her to call you on friday and she didn't???

Whats your problem? I bet you were waiting by the phone all day.
No call - this is major disrespect and she does it because your behavior in the past tells her she can get away with it - don't blame her - blame yourself for settimg low expectations.

Don't call her!! - if she wants to see you have her pick you up and have her pay her own way in whatever you do together.
Personally, I don't associate myself with a disrespectful ho but I think I know why you do. Whatever you do keep your dignity!!!!
Don't let her take that!

 

[squirrels]

I know that it's usually AFC to blame your inability to secure a woman on her own craziness, but some women really ARE psycho.

And it sounds like you've caught feelings for one. If I were you, I'd get those feelings under control and realize that she's not "the one" for you. Then either break up with her, or keep using her for sex while you look for someone who CAN live up to your expectations.

You know what you should do. What you WANT to do. You're just in denial about it because you care too much about a woman who isn't satisfying YOUR needs for commitment and consistency.

 

[Oxide]

boy toy - a person used by a chick to get her sex urges out, not for ANYTHING else.

if u are serious about a realtionship with her, walk away now.

 

[Befuddled]

youve entered the world of fvck buddies and booty calls.... except this time she seems to be the one making the booty call .

congradulations... how does it feel ? .

on a more serious note:
if your sleeping with this chick, i think it's better if you descide what you want out of it and take the appropriate action...

judging from your post, it's obvious what you want... and i think you aught to either:
1. talk to her about it. find out what she wats out of it ?
2. walk away.
3. play her little games. (kinda what your doing now imo)

ifi were you i wouldnt do #3.... but thats just me.

 

[Tantric]

Thanks guys...

Actually, i wan't "waiting by the phone" as PuertoRican_Lover suggested...i knew she wasn't going to and i made other plans.

It's been mentioned from the get-go that it would only be an occasional hook-up and fvck buddy relationship...yeah, i heard...i just wasn't listening...

it's funny because i realised that I'm pi$$ed off not because of her actions (i knew what her actions were going to be anyway)...i' think i'm pissed because i DON'T care...that make any sense? I really have no interest in speaking with her again and i think THAT bothered me...i guess because my feelings changed so drastically over the past month.

i've got an ex fvck buddy coming down for xmas so i'll be having some fun for 10 days!!

HBOreo is history and there will be no more posts on this fvcked up chick. Sionara!!!!!

 

[myfriendblu]

I blame her flaky-ness on low IL...Duh....NEXT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Paid Laid & Made]

Hey I am amazed she has lasted as long as she did. Good job, you got ball$ of steel.