“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

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HB9s and 10s in grocery stores

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- Have any of you ever been in a case where if you dont game a girl, you feel guilty. Well, I have felt exactly like that recently. Every single time I walk into the local grocery store here, I run into atleast one HB10, EVERY single time. I don't normally have an issue approaching ladies, but in a grocery store, it feels farking awkward?

- What are some strategies that you guys employ to open a conversation while they are shopping without looking like a TOTAL CREEP.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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HB10's don't go grocery shopping, they have others get their groceries for them. Ever see a super model in the produce section? :crackup:
 

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Leprechaun2013 said:
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HB10's don't go grocery shopping, they have others get their groceries for them. Ever see a super model in the produce section? :crackup:
Believe it or not, I have! You know whats crazy, that's the only time I can tell they don't have their ***** defense up like they do in bars and clubs.
 

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Guilty !?!...... Hell no , i have better things to be doing than trying to approach every single woman i encounter over my day – day business it’s not economical and way too time consuming

bishes are capable of approaching you as well you know

Right anyway in answer to your question

Look at what she is shopping for and ask which product is good and then why
Add some ****y funny into the conversation and then number close with something like

“Well i have to shoot but if you give me your number you can carry on sharing your wisdom about (insert random product) some other time and then laugh”

Obviously you are taking the p*ss a little bit out of her but as long as your smiling and she laughs its soft and playfull you should get her number

** note DONT do this if shes looking at feminine things like tampons you will end up with a kick in the balls**

Good luck
 

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Leprechaun2013 said:
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HB10's don't go grocery shopping, they have others get their groceries for them. Ever see a super model in the produce section? :crackup:
Yes, I do. All the time. But then, I live in Manhattan.

I was joking around with an off the charts model last week. As we rounded our respective corners from opposite directions a second time, I told her "we've got to stop meeting like this". We both had a good laugh.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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My standard grocery store opener is when you standing looking at the huge selection of (whatever) you say: when did (whatever) get so complicated? If they just had one I am sure I would be fine with it but since they have 15 kinds I have to stand and agonize over it".

I have also used: a woman texting or on her phone - "you know distracted shopping kills budgets" or "no texting and driving applies to carts too".

The wine aisle is easy. You can flat approach and say "do you know anything about wine? I need a decent bottle of (whatever) and all I know about wine is it tends to make my dates look a little hotter after a bottle".

Opening at the grocery is easy for me - but I suck at closing there.... Anyone who wants to add some closing tips, please do so.
 

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good thread, I'm in for some more openers. I saw a cute girl at the tiny store in town yesterday, ran into her twice but couldn't come up with anything. (mostly I was being a pansy)

MOTU, good one on the wine, mental note made on that one.
 

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Guilty? No, that's called regret. I think it's been explained before, day game has it's advantages over night game. During the day, women are not expecting (as many) guys to approach them as they would when they're at a club. So, in a grocery store, you get points for approaching when she's not expecting it.

A grocery store is probably one of the best places for a situational opener. You have so many things to comment about. You can make a joke about something she's buying, or something happening in the store.
 

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There were these two hot hippie chicks I am kicking myself for not talking to. One was on crutches, and the other one was helping her shop. The one on crutches would stand in one spot while the other one walked up the aisles.

I was going to gesture at her cast and ask if she won the fight. If she laughed, I was going to tell her I liked talking to girls on crutches because they can't run away :D
 

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Don't be too naive or a pansy guys. Women want your attentions wherever they are. I've seen some beautiful ladies at the grocery store and they are dressed nicely or wearing short shorts, or make up, earrings...anything that takes an extra effort or time to do equals a sign that she wants the guy to approach. Its an easy friendly environment.

I can't help myself sometimes.
last month some 60 yr old lady was at the check out. She was wearing makeup, noticeably. I thought to myself, why does she need it at this time of day at a grocery. So I jumped in with something stupid like, excuse me, you're very beautiful, I bet you modeled before.

she had a gorgeous face for her age.

I thought she would brush me off, but she was extremely flattered. Eye fvcked me and said I was attractive as well. How I must have young girls after me. As a matter of fact, she did happen to model when younger. I was like, see, I got the magic eye for this. She laughed.

so my rule for grocery stores is always approach when they put that little bit extra into their appearance.

its like chicks going in their in their tight work out stuff say they just went from the gym...yea right...

like someone said..hot girls don't go grocery shopping cuz they have someone to do it. Its her perfect place to get hit on while she tells her bf she needs orange juice.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Approach With Caution

When in a grocery store, or any store, always make sure that she is alone. Almost always (this is NYC I'm talking about) el boyfriendo will pop up right next to her with the cart. He just happened to of been in another isle picking something up.
 

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VladPatton said:
When in a grocery store, or any store, always make sure that she is alone. Almost always (this is NYC I'm talking about) el boyfriendo will pop up right next to her with the cart. He just happened to of been in another isle picking something up.
situations like those make me wish women would put a sign on them that says single or taken
 

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HB10's don't go grocery shopping, they have others get their groceries for them. Ever see a super model in the produce section? :crackup:

Uhhhh I live in Los Angeles. I see HB10's buying milk every single time I step foot into the grocery store lol.

OP...honestly the mindset I have developed is realizing that you don't HAVE to game every single attractive woman you see in your day. If you are leaving the store upset because you didn't say hi you got to pick up some hobbies, read some books, keep your mind busy and not so focused on women.

Believe it or not when you take that approach you will find a lot more women will be attracted to you, and you will catch them smiling, looking at you, which is the perfect grocery store opener.

I had a hot milf the other day looking at cheeses and I opened with "hmm excuse me but whats your favorite cheese? I am trying to find a good cheese to pair with some red wine tonight.?" 9/10 They smile and start yapping up a storm that you asked them there opinion lol.

If you are getting a smile etc, go for it, pick something off the shelf and start asking her about it. Simple easy opener.

Remember not every single attractive woman going to the store is looking to be picked up and hit on. If you don't say hi to her its not the end of the world.
 

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^^^^^
although its true what you just put out here, some people only care about the lay or the Lay experience through a grocery store.

the DJ gets it and doesn't need to chase it..

but. Every DJ should have the grocery lay under his or her belt.

some women are asking for the D at the store, so don't miss the boat.

and side note.. My dad is a pug looking mofo with wrinkles ( I tease him all the tome about it, he says he's had wrinkles since a teenager. But he got my mom with beautiful genes) and he met her on a bus. So its all up to the man.

SOMETIMES I IMAGINE WHAT MY FUGLY DAD DID TO GET A WOMAN ....BUT HE HAD A GREAT JOB SO THERE YOU GO :\
 
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