Hb9 wants me, but she is Jobless and is an convicted felon

[Fatal Jay]

This chick is hot, she is girlfriend material in looks,but she is jobless (drawing unemployment, and a felon, she used her roommates bank card bone dry and then some)

Is it worth it sticking it out this chick, or should I run away?

 

[cablecow15]

run , no matter what ur **** tells you , theres always *****es that can be hott with out having compleatly trash lives

 

[Naughty Ninja]

This chick is hot, she is girlfriend material in looks,but she is jobless (drawing unemployment, and a felon, she used her roommates bank card bone dry and then some)

Is it worth it sticking it out this chick, or should I run away?

No joke but I swear to God it sounds like some chicks who are on POF. I wouldn't be surprised if she's used online dating before and or has had a profile on there.

Dudes think I'm joking about that sh1t but there are a few on there after talking who start blabbing about stuff they've done like they can't help it.

I'd take off without a word.

What is with dudes on this forum complaining or even entertaining questions about types of chicks like the one you described, then going after them and complaining like "all" chicks are like the one you mentioned yet for some strange reason they can't stop themselves from going after.

 

[floydb25]

There is no such thing as GF material in looks. FB's, yes. Not many hot girls are GF material, so you have to be extra selective with them. 90% of the time, they are trash because they CAN be, and get away with it. They use their looks to their advantage, and you HAVE to watch out for these types who rely on their looks for everything. Dont expect any change - because they dont HAVE to change, or become better. Theyre hot. Guys will put up with their ****, and pay their way - and they know this.

You need to switch up your standards. It's this girl is hot enough to ****, but not quality enough to get involved with. The higher you go in looks, the less quality they tend to be. And this girl sounds like a loser.

Focus on who they are for relationships, and what they look like for ****ing. Thats something guys need to learn from women - they date and **** the hot / exciting bad boys. Thats because their standards are a little different, and they're more intuitive about who people are, and categorize them accordingly. They only play dumb to act innocent, play the victim, and not appear as slutty or shallow - when they befriend NGs and date BBs. Social acceptance and appropriateness, and what not.

This is why bad boys get laid so often, and so easily. When theyre not pursuing or manipulating their targeted prey - the women (of low class) approach THEM, and focus on sex. Go ahead, try it. The women know whats up, what their intentions are, and who theyre targeting, for whatever purpose they have. Bad boys = hot sex.

Men need to start doing the same thing - instead of attaching looks to relationships - and theyll be much better off. Its not just fun and games. People can **** you up mentally and emotionally if you seek after the wrong types to befriend or get involved with. Be selective, and have standards. Seperate good people from the bad, and pursue them accordingly (ie, bad = sex and excitement with no strings).

Also, what NN said. Dont pursue a girl you KNOW is trash - simply because she's hot - only to complain about how trashy she is. Dont be a dumbass.

 

[Fatal Jay]

thanks for the advice guys

especially Floyd, im going to drop this broad

 

[Cremasta]

Does the term "Black Widow" mean anything to you? :nervous:

 

[Silvertip]

Go for it and keep her until she finds out your real name, address, and phone number. Once the alias doesn't work, high-tail outta there.

 

[Deep Dish]

Fatal Jay:
This chick is hot, she is girlfriend material in looks, but she is jobless (drawing unemployment, and a felon, she used her roommates bank card bone dry and then some).

Your name is Mark. A mark is a target.

If she misappropriated funds from her roommate, that strongly implies she can’t manage her own life. Even if she didn’t literally steal your debit card, she would play guilt trips on you, absolutely guaranteed. Since she is a felon, the chances of her finding a job, especially in this economy, is close to zero. When she is all down and out, no money, unable to pay her bills, she probably would threaten suicide… unless you gave her more money.

 

[Blackmm]

I know that a felony is a deal killer for most chicks but would you guys really care if she was busted for insider trading?

 

[Deep Dish]

Blackmm:
I know that a felony is a deal killer for most chicks but would you guys really care if she was busted for insider trading?

As long as a chick is hot and sexually available, men don’t care. I have slept with two women who were once arrested for grand theft auto. It’s when their shït affects your life that it matters, like being an unemployed felon.

 

[Purefilth]

Just because she is hot and wants you is not a good enough reason to want her too.
Sreen the chicks. This one is a Next. Pretty face but she's a thief.

 

[Deep Dish]

Just because she is hot and wants you is not a good enough reason to want her too. Screen the chicks.

I agree. My above comment was being descriptive, not prescriptive.

I once did a web search on this question and the results were that women uniformly said they would never ‘date’ a felon, whereas men replied it depended on the nature of the offense and how hot she was. It just goes to show the dynamic of how much the male mind is driven by sex. Tap it and then zap it.

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

What is with dudes on this forum complaining or even entertaining questions about types of chicks like the one you described, then going after them and complaining like "all" chicks are like the one you mentioned yet for some strange reason they can't stop themselves from going after.

EXACTLY. Thank you. God.

It frustrates me to no end when guys go after only the "plastic" looking HB8-10's with 10 lbs of makeup on and then complain about the same results over and over. Then they go on to say that "all" women are "crazy". Bullsh1t. Just stop going for the same type of girl.

These guys are just as bad as the crazy chicks that they go after.

 

[floydb25]

EXACTLY. Thank you. God.

It frustrates me to no end when guys go after only the "plastic" looking HB8-10's with 10 lbs of makeup on and then complain about the same results over and over. Then they go on to say that "all" women are "crazy". Bullsh1t. Just stop going for the same type of girl.

These guys are just as bad as the crazy chicks that they go after.

Because, like the women who do the same thing, theyre focusing solely on looks and attraction - not quality and compatibility. They see someone who's hot, exciting, and dangerous, and jump right in - avoiding all the red flags in the process. But, hot people arent the most common type out there, and everyone wants them, so it over-rides every negative quality you can think of.

In the end, all those attractive qualities are only good for short-term fun. The goosebumps, excitement, unpredictability... Its all lust and infatuation. But people want that + quality, so they stick around in hopes of things getting better, and try changing them - only to find out what they knew deep down was the case all along - just another troubled / dysfunctional hottie who's only good for sex. Some people dont realize this until its too late.

This is something you learn through experience: looks ARENT the most important factor, fake / troubled / bad hotties ARENT relationship material, red flags ARENT to be avoided, and so forth.

I think theres also a sense of desperation involved, and the need to MAKE this one work, because everyone has a specific type they go after. Once they find that type - all logic goes out the window, they rush in heart first, and make the same dreadful mistakes over and over. And also, people tend to attract what they are, seek after what is familiar, etc. Change isnt always that easy, but becomes necessary with enough failure.

Thats why its vital to have self-control and sufficient standards; to think with your head and pay attention, and etc. Especially if these patterns keep repeating themselves... You MUST take a step back and realize whats going on, and change your standards as necessary. Its not always a lack of "game" thats the problem, but choosing awful / toxic people to pursue and get involved with.

So, its not always so simple, and I think everyone makes these mistakes. ****, I did it for a good decade. lolz.

The same thing also applies to friendships. You learn to "hang out" with (or avoid) the cool / bad types who party or whatever... Shoot the **** once in a while... Maybe go out... Acquaintances at best... OTOH, you befriend the quality ones who you can trust, talk to normally, wont backstab you, etc... Just decent people all around.

This is another mistake people make - for the same reasons, and with the same results - only to end up with a bunch of fake people in their lives. You gotta categorize and separate the good from the bad, and treat them accordingly.