HB9 I called a b*tch a year ago came back.

[Fatal Jay]

This super hot, and I do mean super hot hb9 added me today on facebook. Which is funny because a year back I called her a bit*ch. I may have been the only guy in her life that ever done this, being that guys suck up to her and does everything she says.

She told me she would never speak to me again, and this girl is known to do that being that she have so many guys at her whim. When me and her was dating I always tried to show her a side to me no guy has every done, for instance not agreeing with everything she does and say and trying to impress her. I will be lying if I said I don't want to make this girl my woman. She seem so excited when I messaged her asking if her number changed, and she asked me how I been.

What do you guys think about this situation, do you think I have a chance and is the ball in my court or is she just checking with me to see if I still want her.

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

I think you might have a chance as long as you don't make her a friend on your facebook. Did you send her a friends request? Or just messages to get her #? Hopefully the latter.

 

[disgustipated]

Question is does she still have a chance? Your words was she's a *****. This could be a year long **** test. Make her prove she's not a *****, that's where yall left off. Make her earn it.

 

[disgustipated]

Double post.

 

[jjacob]

Question is does she still have a chance? Your words was she's a *****. This could be a year long **** test. Make her prove she's not a *****, that's where yall left off. Make her earn it.

Agree.. First things she's gonna wanna figure out is if you feel like you ****ed up, just make it seem like you might be open to seeing her if she plays her cards right. Of course you want to bang her again but it aint happening if you do all the chasing.

Women are great at letting you know you have a pseudo-chance but you still have a wall to climb. Do the same. After a length of time what I usually encounter is:

Me: Hey there
Her: Oh hey.

Feels so good to wait for them to come to you and and do the same **** back.

 

[Fatal Jay]

I think you might have a chance as long as you don't make her a friend on your facebook. Did you send her a friends request? Or just messages to get her #? Hopefully the latter.

She sent me a friend request, I just realized I said she added me. I mean't she friend requested me.

 

[Fatal Jay]

I think you might have a chance as long as you don't make her a friend on your facebook. Did you send her a friends request? Or just messages to get her #? Hopefully the latter.

She sent me a friend request, I just realized I said she added me. I mean't she friend requested me.

Agree.. First things she's gonna wanna figure out is if you feel like you ****ed up, just make it seem like you might be open to seeing her if she plays her cards right. Of course you want to bang her again but it aint happening if you do all the chasing.

Women are great at letting you know you have a pseudo-chance but you still have a wall to climb. Do the same. After a length of time what I usually encounter is:

Me: Hey there
Her: Oh hey.

Feels so good to wait for them to come to you and and do the same **** back.

Good advice

 

[Jitterbug]

Leave her friend request hanging, don't answer it. Might be the first time in her life someone - esp a man - does that.

Do you run into her in person? If you do, it's game on. Obviously do not bring up the friend request. She might feel she has to do something extra to get your attention.

I did that to a girl in my social circle a few years ago, and nowadays whenever something Facebook related comes up, she still brings it up as an example of me being an arse (translation: unforgettable lol).

 

[Fatal Jay]

Thing is though, even though I was doing things different I still pursued this girl heavy and she knew it. This time around I'm going to be chilling. I got enough plates to keep me in that chill mode vibe where I don't have to pursue at all.

Women can smell that stuff on a man, but it throws them in a loop when the guy is like "whatever".

 

[PlayHer Man]

Outcome dependency is never good Fatal Jay and you seem to have it here. It can screw up your game if you're not careful.

Ask yourself these questions --> Can you trust yourself to maintain frame and not turn into a desperate beta faggot if you get in contact with her again? Will you get oneitis? Do you have oneitis now?

Its important as a DJ to always be totally honest with YOURSELF. Don't lie to yourself and tell yourself you don't give sh!t when you know deep down that you do.

With that said. Go after what you want and if you get shot down, just walk away. Its never more complex than that.

Here is what I would do:

Wait a week or so before accepting the friend request. Then after a few days shoot her a private message like: "What's up?"

If she ignores this message, never contact her again. She is playing power games. If she responds with enthusiasm.. then run your game.