choychoy12
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Hey guys,
If you've read my earlier posts, they were all about how i was having problems with my gf, and how i was going to stay with her etc. etc.
Now my GF is a definete HB9 , everyone is always complimenting her on how hot she is, and beautiful etc. etc.
What i dont get is???? I"M DOING ALL THE WRONG THINGS. haha
Why does she still stay with me?? I dont get it honestly...
This site, talks about being a man, etc etc..
So I've been with my GF for about 9months now.
I do alot of thigns wrong.
I tell her i'm a wussy all the time, and that why does she still want to stay with such a wussy and weak bf..
See the problem is she's a high paid corporate assistant. With her life together, she's 100% confident, she could have any guy she wants.
I'm just a guy who's still in school, struggling to keep up with the work. Who's insecure.
Whenever she spends more time with her work collegues than me, i winge tell her i dont like it, and i dont feel loved. Whenever she's too tired to see me, i tell her that she doesn't make an effort and its just me.
According to all the experts?? I should have been dumped along time ago right??
I dont get it. I think it've tried to dump her like 6 times now. and tried to go on a break alot of times before that.
But in the end, she's always like. No i love you, there's no other guy out there like you etc. etc.??
I always tell her wussy stuff like. I'm a really sensitive guy. who's really emotional. I get upset at the smallest things. ANd she's like yes i know. But she still stays with me??
I always tell her, that she'll be happy without me, she's got a great job and that she'll meet a guy that will sweep her off her feet who isn't insecure etc etc..
What she says is, that yes! Any other guy out there could. But she loves me, because i make her feel all the emotions. like make her happy, sad, make her cry suprise her etc. She says the only reason she's happy during her days is because she knows at work she's got a loving caring bf.
SO i dont get it. The last time i dumped her, becasue of this whole work thing. I told her not to call me anymore or msg me, coz i wuond't reply. I live in the country btw, she lives in the city.
To make the dumping official! She was like, no were not breaking up! And i said! Dont you get it! I dont love you anymore. It's over! Were over!
SHe started crying and she was just like.. can you please come over so we can talk this. I was like NO! SHe' slike if you dont i will..
I said dont, i wont be home, she said if your not home, i'll wait for you.. So anyway. She caught a taxi down....
She ended up saying we always have these arguments but we always end up together.. She said that she loves me again.. ANd that she'll do everything she can to make things better... and that we'll understand each other more and more..
But the things is i get the same speach all the time.... that she'll love and care for me. But the same **** happens again and again. I definetly feel like i put more into the relatinoship then she does. e.g. suprise her, travel to see her. take my free time for her.. you know all the wussy stuff.. pay for all the dinner bills.. buy her gifts regurlarly. Give in to what she wants...
Right now its really up to the point where i feel like losing her will be better for my self esteem anyway.!
I mean she's so hot! Like the sex is awesome! And it happens everytime i see her! But becasue of her whole work thing. It feels like i'm just the time slot bf. Like whever she's free then i can come see her! It also feels like she's way more happier with her friends at work then she is with me. Like if she had a choice with me or her friends at work, she'll bel ike.. Hey cant see you tonight.. going out wiht friends at work!!! WHich is ****!!!!!!!
That feeling sucks. That's why i always want out! I always tell her! Why cant you just let me go! I'll be happier.. but she just keeps hodling on???
I tell her she'll be more happier with a confident guy! And i always tell her.. Please just give me a break for a week.. to work on myself even.. so i'm not such a wussy.. and she wont even let us go on a break...
She said even if i cheated on her! She'd still give me another chance.. stay with me! I Dont get it???
Maybe becasue its 9months now?? But i remmeber that it was shocking when we first started going out.. She called all the shots.. she'd want to break up with me.. I dunno what happened, but somehow, i kept holding on, and suprising her and making up for the stupid things i did.. She didn't have many feelings for me back then.. .But all the sudden everythings changed...
One time I just didn't pick up her calls or msg's for a few days.. and she just kept msg'ng and calling, saying i love you.. bal bal bal... I dunno! She's definetly not an insecure girl!!!!! She's is totally secure, and not sensitive or emotional! Basically the opposite of me!!!!!!!!!
I dont get this guys?? I"M Being a full on wussy! AFC!!!???? But she still wants me!??? WHAT THE???
If you've read my earlier posts, they were all about how i was having problems with my gf, and how i was going to stay with her etc. etc.
Now my GF is a definete HB9 , everyone is always complimenting her on how hot she is, and beautiful etc. etc.
What i dont get is???? I"M DOING ALL THE WRONG THINGS. haha
Why does she still stay with me?? I dont get it honestly...
This site, talks about being a man, etc etc..
So I've been with my GF for about 9months now.
I do alot of thigns wrong.
I tell her i'm a wussy all the time, and that why does she still want to stay with such a wussy and weak bf..
See the problem is she's a high paid corporate assistant. With her life together, she's 100% confident, she could have any guy she wants.
I'm just a guy who's still in school, struggling to keep up with the work. Who's insecure.
Whenever she spends more time with her work collegues than me, i winge tell her i dont like it, and i dont feel loved. Whenever she's too tired to see me, i tell her that she doesn't make an effort and its just me.
According to all the experts?? I should have been dumped along time ago right??
I dont get it. I think it've tried to dump her like 6 times now. and tried to go on a break alot of times before that.
But in the end, she's always like. No i love you, there's no other guy out there like you etc. etc.??
I always tell her wussy stuff like. I'm a really sensitive guy. who's really emotional. I get upset at the smallest things. ANd she's like yes i know. But she still stays with me??
I always tell her, that she'll be happy without me, she's got a great job and that she'll meet a guy that will sweep her off her feet who isn't insecure etc etc..
What she says is, that yes! Any other guy out there could. But she loves me, because i make her feel all the emotions. like make her happy, sad, make her cry suprise her etc. She says the only reason she's happy during her days is because she knows at work she's got a loving caring bf.
SO i dont get it. The last time i dumped her, becasue of this whole work thing. I told her not to call me anymore or msg me, coz i wuond't reply. I live in the country btw, she lives in the city.
To make the dumping official! She was like, no were not breaking up! And i said! Dont you get it! I dont love you anymore. It's over! Were over!
SHe started crying and she was just like.. can you please come over so we can talk this. I was like NO! SHe' slike if you dont i will..
I said dont, i wont be home, she said if your not home, i'll wait for you.. So anyway. She caught a taxi down....
She ended up saying we always have these arguments but we always end up together.. She said that she loves me again.. ANd that she'll do everything she can to make things better... and that we'll understand each other more and more..
But the things is i get the same speach all the time.... that she'll love and care for me. But the same **** happens again and again. I definetly feel like i put more into the relatinoship then she does. e.g. suprise her, travel to see her. take my free time for her.. you know all the wussy stuff.. pay for all the dinner bills.. buy her gifts regurlarly. Give in to what she wants...
Right now its really up to the point where i feel like losing her will be better for my self esteem anyway.!
I mean she's so hot! Like the sex is awesome! And it happens everytime i see her! But becasue of her whole work thing. It feels like i'm just the time slot bf. Like whever she's free then i can come see her! It also feels like she's way more happier with her friends at work then she is with me. Like if she had a choice with me or her friends at work, she'll bel ike.. Hey cant see you tonight.. going out wiht friends at work!!! WHich is ****!!!!!!!
That feeling sucks. That's why i always want out! I always tell her! Why cant you just let me go! I'll be happier.. but she just keeps hodling on???
I tell her she'll be more happier with a confident guy! And i always tell her.. Please just give me a break for a week.. to work on myself even.. so i'm not such a wussy.. and she wont even let us go on a break...
She said even if i cheated on her! She'd still give me another chance.. stay with me! I Dont get it???
Maybe becasue its 9months now?? But i remmeber that it was shocking when we first started going out.. She called all the shots.. she'd want to break up with me.. I dunno what happened, but somehow, i kept holding on, and suprising her and making up for the stupid things i did.. She didn't have many feelings for me back then.. .But all the sudden everythings changed...
One time I just didn't pick up her calls or msg's for a few days.. and she just kept msg'ng and calling, saying i love you.. bal bal bal... I dunno! She's definetly not an insecure girl!!!!! She's is totally secure, and not sensitive or emotional! Basically the opposite of me!!!!!!!!!
I dont get this guys?? I"M Being a full on wussy! AFC!!!???? But she still wants me!??? WHAT THE???