Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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HB9.5, possible future wifey, post first date confusion (adavanced DJs only)

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Fash

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vorbis said:
well, there's nothing wrong with paying on the first date. Its a continued pattern of paying for her thats afc. I have to say though, is this the same Fash that posted previous FRs????
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Yep. It's the same Fash. :eek:

I don't think there is anything wrong with the guy paying on the first date either specially if he is the one who has invited her out.

It is by no means AFC, it's a personal choice and purely depends on the situation.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Holland

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What are you doing, man?

Spark attraction, play some hard to get, go out with her a couple of times and make her fall in love with you. Done deal.
It doesn't matter what 'criteria' she talks about (even if you do happen to fit them).


She'll marry a poor, average guy if he knows how to build the attraction to the max (sure, he has to build it higher than someone who does meet her criteria, but still, it's the attraction that'll make the difference)

And you call yourself an advanced DJ, I wouldn' even consider myself that way.
 
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You don't split the check with girls like this. You pay for the first date, period.
 
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The thing is, you are playing her rules, her game. You are modifying your reality to fit hers. You are inteligent and capable enough to have your (game) played, not hers.

Besides, since when has "doing the gentlemanish thing to do" gotten anyone any booty? You pass ALL women through the ALL the SAME filters, no exceptions.
 
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