"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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HB9.5 and a Flake, Help

omgwtfm8

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Me and this HB9.5 (yes, she's 9.5, I'd almost say HB10 but nobody's perfect)

Well we've been hitting it off of and on, just talking though. Tuesday we've both agreed to meet Thursday at her house. I quote, "Do some homework and have her parents cook me a nice dinner." She loved the idea, We laughed, had a great conversation and I said, "I'll call you tomorrow".

Next Day, I knew she was at practice so I buzz her phone so can just call me back in an hour when it's over. She ends up calling me all excited, I was on the other line, I clicked over and she starts off "Hey! I'm at practice I'll call you back!" I started talking right away as soon as she did too because I was gonna tell her that I'm on the other line. I got frustrated, so the only thing that came out of my mouth was "Huh? What? Oh, Okay, Bye!" I hang up

The way i came off sounded rude and mean...(who cares though) I didn't realize it until now.

But she gets the wrong idea, doesn't call me after practice, comes home and puts up an away message, "Then came all the boys who swept you up, played careless with your heart."

I text her, "Oh you're at practice, it was hard to understand you on the phone, but i remember from you telling me yesterday, lol call me when you get out"

No Response still.

Now I don't know what to do, Is dinner still on for tomorrow? Do I call her tomorrow if I don't here from her at all. She can't just ignore me after this... We had plans and I'll usually run into her soon because she's in the same social circle as me.

What do i do?!?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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skip2mylou781

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your thinking too much.....yes, call her tomorrow

do u want a relationship with her where all u do is play games??? call her just like u would call 1 of ur friends if u were in the same situation

STOP OVERANALYZING
 

omgwtfm8

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I've already made the latest contact w/ my text message.

She hasn't responded. But she did put up an away msg relating to our situation, Are you sure I go ahead and give her another call?
 
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