"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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HB9.0, 35-40, attraction both ways... But her husband was sitting there...

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I-A-S... I think that you totally misread the situation here. She is what? 35 or 40 years old? She will have been having conversations with her friends about pap-smears, giving birth, kids vomiting in your mouth, multiple orgasms, anal sex and having affairs... NOTHING embarrasses them by the time they get into their mid-30's!

She was probably having a private competition with herself to see how embarrassed she could make you. The reason she stopped is because her husband gave her the message that she was overstepping the boundaries of civility (especially in front of your parents). She probably got a bollocking when they got home.

Forget it, to her, you are a kid.

On the other hand, if she is out for a bit on the side... then it's all good. She will make the first move, because she is the married one and won't expect you to make any moves on her, especially if her and her husband are friends of your parents.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Well, I look older and a lot more masculine than her husband. However, she was trying to get me to notice her intentions, not the other way around. I was just sitting there giving absolutely no body language that would be out of the ordinary, just giving her straight eyecontact. However, she kept on bringing up topics that the average girl does when she is interested, which tipped off the husband to what she was thinking about (that, and the way she looked at me ofcourse).
We gave eachother a look at the end like "This is not a good idea, but damn.......", which is pretty much where I think I should leave it.

Anyway, it is somewhat flattering that she went after me based entirely on my looks. Good ego-booster ;).
 
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2 things....

1) I-am-someone: Do you have a picture of yourself to share with us?:rolleyes:


2) Are you sure that she wasnt just playing with you? Some women lead other men on in order to stroke their OWN ego's too... What makes you so positive that she was being totaly serious about foing "after you"?


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1) I-am-someone: Do you have a picture of yourself to share with us?
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Nope, I don't have a digital camera and I don't know anybody with one. The last picture taken of me (in my possession, I've had other people take my picture but never got them myself) is about a year old and wouldn't quite give the right image of me ;). I'll get a picture of myself one day, don't worry.

2) Are you sure that she wasnt just playing with you? Some women lead other men on in order to stroke their OWN ego's too... What makes you so positive that she was being totaly serious about foing "after you"?
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Ofcourse she was playing around :)
Isn't that what all this stuff is about? Play around and have fun, unless you want a LTR?
You know, if this woman wasn't this interested in me she could've easily just ignored me. She told my mom to call me downstairs to talk with them, she started all the conversation topics about me and with me. As soon as I came downstairs, I was her center of attention in pretty much everything. She was playing with her hair half the time and kept on giggling at my way too neutral comments.
I don't really need to prove it to you, I may just be imagining things and ofcourse this IS mental masturbation because nothing is ever going to happen. However, had I acted on it it would have probably been an easy ride if she hadn't had a husband.
 
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lol... ok:)


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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
You will die young!!!
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This was an incomplete statement, it is to read "If you play around with married women you will die young!!!"
 
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