"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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HB9.0, 35-40, attraction both ways... But her husband was sitting there...

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I-A-S... I think that you totally misread the situation here. She is what? 35 or 40 years old? She will have been having conversations with her friends about pap-smears, giving birth, kids vomiting in your mouth, multiple orgasms, anal sex and having affairs... NOTHING embarrasses them by the time they get into their mid-30's!

She was probably having a private competition with herself to see how embarrassed she could make you. The reason she stopped is because her husband gave her the message that she was overstepping the boundaries of civility (especially in front of your parents). She probably got a bollocking when they got home.

Forget it, to her, you are a kid.

On the other hand, if she is out for a bit on the side... then it's all good. She will make the first move, because she is the married one and won't expect you to make any moves on her, especially if her and her husband are friends of your parents.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Well, I look older and a lot more masculine than her husband. However, she was trying to get me to notice her intentions, not the other way around. I was just sitting there giving absolutely no body language that would be out of the ordinary, just giving her straight eyecontact. However, she kept on bringing up topics that the average girl does when she is interested, which tipped off the husband to what she was thinking about (that, and the way she looked at me ofcourse).
We gave eachother a look at the end like "This is not a good idea, but damn.......", which is pretty much where I think I should leave it.

Anyway, it is somewhat flattering that she went after me based entirely on my looks. Good ego-booster ;).
 

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2 things....

1) I-am-someone: Do you have a picture of yourself to share with us?:rolleyes:


2) Are you sure that she wasnt just playing with you? Some women lead other men on in order to stroke their OWN ego's too... What makes you so positive that she was being totaly serious about foing "after you"?


Laterz...
 

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1) I-am-someone: Do you have a picture of yourself to share with us?
Nope, I don't have a digital camera and I don't know anybody with one. The last picture taken of me (in my possession, I've had other people take my picture but never got them myself) is about a year old and wouldn't quite give the right image of me ;). I'll get a picture of myself one day, don't worry.

2) Are you sure that she wasnt just playing with you? Some women lead other men on in order to stroke their OWN ego's too... What makes you so positive that she was being totaly serious about foing "after you"?
Ofcourse she was playing around :)
Isn't that what all this stuff is about? Play around and have fun, unless you want a LTR?
You know, if this woman wasn't this interested in me she could've easily just ignored me. She told my mom to call me downstairs to talk with them, she started all the conversation topics about me and with me. As soon as I came downstairs, I was her center of attention in pretty much everything. She was playing with her hair half the time and kept on giggling at my way too neutral comments.
I don't really need to prove it to you, I may just be imagining things and ofcourse this IS mental masturbation because nothing is ever going to happen. However, had I acted on it it would have probably been an easy ride if she hadn't had a husband.
 

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lol... ok:)


Laterz...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
You will die young!!!
This was an incomplete statement, it is to read "If you play around with married women you will die young!!!"
 
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