"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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HB8 who said girls are too emotional and her dad wanted a boy

Kenny Powers

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Fairly normal and smart HB8 told me straight up on our first date (we chilled and talked in a park for an 1.5 hours) that her dad wanted a boy and kinda treated her like one. This caused her to play a lot of sports and have the ambition of a man (solid career aspirations - wants to earn her money and lead an interesting life) resulting in a rockin bod and interesting personality.

She also told me she thinks women are too emotional (though no comment on whether she is haha). She also doesn't take crap from people and is alpha in some ways. However, at the same time she also didn't make great eye contact on our date and admitted she lacks confidence sometimes.

This was the only stuff that stood out when we chilled and otherwise she seemed normal and like someone i'd want to keep seeing - her glorious a$$ doesnt hurt either ;). Also despite all this i dont think she has mainly guy friends which i consider a good sign due to past experiences.

How do you guys think I should approach this situation and act in a manner she'll find attractive? I'm thinking basic alpha stuff and being sexually extroverted should work best, but im no psychologist. Thoughts? Anyone experience anything similar?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Mike32ct

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Alpha chicks want an even more alpha guy. Be very confident and decisive. The only thing they respect is a guy with more b&lls than them.

I don't mean tough guy stuff, just being the guy that gets things done asap and can handle anything. Make decisions fast. Also be more outgoing than her at social events.

I was at a party with one of these chicks and her friend. I was doing lots of approaches. She said "I wish I could do what you do."

It goes without saying that it has to look natural. Don't be over the top try hard either. But overall, I think you have the right idea.
 

Bible_Belt

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"Daddy wanted a boy" is no joke. It's only one step down from 'daddy ran off.' A woman's relationship with her father always seems to control much of her life. They want a guy who either their dad, or the exact opposite.

She wants you to make her feel like a woman. You have to see her feminine side and cater to that. Basically, be the opposite of her dad. Notice her shoes, purse, dress, makeup or any effort she puts into being pretty, because she's doing it for you. Positive affirmation validates and encourages good behavior.
 
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