"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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HB8 who said girls are too emotional and her dad wanted a boy

Kenny Powers

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Fairly normal and smart HB8 told me straight up on our first date (we chilled and talked in a park for an 1.5 hours) that her dad wanted a boy and kinda treated her like one. This caused her to play a lot of sports and have the ambition of a man (solid career aspirations - wants to earn her money and lead an interesting life) resulting in a rockin bod and interesting personality.

She also told me she thinks women are too emotional (though no comment on whether she is haha). She also doesn't take crap from people and is alpha in some ways. However, at the same time she also didn't make great eye contact on our date and admitted she lacks confidence sometimes.

This was the only stuff that stood out when we chilled and otherwise she seemed normal and like someone i'd want to keep seeing - her glorious a$$ doesnt hurt either ;). Also despite all this i dont think she has mainly guy friends which i consider a good sign due to past experiences.

How do you guys think I should approach this situation and act in a manner she'll find attractive? I'm thinking basic alpha stuff and being sexually extroverted should work best, but im no psychologist. Thoughts? Anyone experience anything similar?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Mike32ct

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Alpha chicks want an even more alpha guy. Be very confident and decisive. The only thing they respect is a guy with more b&lls than them.

I don't mean tough guy stuff, just being the guy that gets things done asap and can handle anything. Make decisions fast. Also be more outgoing than her at social events.

I was at a party with one of these chicks and her friend. I was doing lots of approaches. She said "I wish I could do what you do."

It goes without saying that it has to look natural. Don't be over the top try hard either. But overall, I think you have the right idea.
 

Bible_Belt

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"Daddy wanted a boy" is no joke. It's only one step down from 'daddy ran off.' A woman's relationship with her father always seems to control much of her life. They want a guy who either their dad, or the exact opposite.

She wants you to make her feel like a woman. You have to see her feminine side and cater to that. Basically, be the opposite of her dad. Notice her shoes, purse, dress, makeup or any effort she puts into being pretty, because she's doing it for you. Positive affirmation validates and encourages good behavior.
 
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