"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Pimpology101

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Sup playas, I have been dating a certain girl for a while now and I used the kino advice i got from this site and its worked well. This girl had never kissed a guy before and now i can say ive made out with her and felt her up. My dilema is there is another HB9 interested in me and wants to date. Should i just keep them from knowing and eachother and play them both or stay with what ive got goin and save her for later maybe.. or somethin.. lol
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Jimbo2k

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Are you exclusive with this girl you made out with?

If not: date her as well, either keep it a secret and let them assume its not exclusive, or tell them straight up its not exclusive.

If so: I'd say no, but it depends on your morals
 
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Runna13=)

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"Play them both?" "Save her for later?" Grow up and be a man. For even considering that, I say you don't deserve either of them.
 
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California Love

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Keep in touch with the HB9. If u intend on starting something up with this girl, definitely do not let your girlfriend or the people in your school find out. Either way, don't break contact. The more girls around you, the less of a chance you'll fall into an AFC state.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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rich_uk

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runner has a point, being a dj is not all about how many girls you can have at once. it means different things to different people and it all depends on what you want and what in good conscience you can allowe yourself to do.
 
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Cloud-uk

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Exactly rich, so runna's advice was crap. Sure, to him getting off with lots of girls may be a very un-manly thing to do, but he has no place to say that someone else should grow up just because they're having some fun.

Runna, no offence ment, but its not a question of him deserving them, remember they're nothing special. Even HB10s take dumps.

Pimpology, you can look at it anyway you like, but what matters is that when HB8 gets wind of HB9, you might lose both. I take it you don't have a deep felt emotional attachment (blah blah blah) with either, but still- keeping two girls from knowing about each other is such hassle... ah well, I'd try and make sure the HB8 knew where we stood- unattached- and so you were both free to do whoever you want. Personally, I don't really enjoy making people upset so I wouldn't do it unless that was ok-d.

Awwww I can be such a big bundle of niceness sometimes...:rolleyes:
 
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