HB8?? Also girl I am seeing Sex drive didnt have said?

[thelonewolflegend]

What does that mean? Also last night my girl I am seeing told me she didn't have a drive to have sex she wasn't into it last night any advice?

 

[Epimanes]

Women need 2 things for their sex drive.

(1.) An emotional attatchment (have you been building good vibes between you?)
(2.) Prospect of enjoyment. (Does she genuinly enjoy sex with you and can you consistantly make her cvm? This does not include times when she genuinly doesn't want to cvm but is happy to please you to help bring (1.) back)

If (1.) is missing then its easy for her to fake (2.) for a time... But if (1.) is missing for too long then sex will put her in a bad place mentally she will likely withdraw from sex entirely or wait til more of (1.) Comes from you.

That my take anyways.

Epi

 

[thelonewolflegend]

(1.) An emotional attatchment (have you been building good vibes between you?)
(2.) Prospect of enjoyment. (Does she genuinly enjoy sex with you and can you consistantly make her cvm? This does not include times when she genuinly doesn't want to cvm but is happy to please you to help bring (1.) back)

If (1.) is missing then its easy for her to fake (2.) for a time... But if (1.) is missing for too long then sex will put her in a bad place mentally she will likely withdraw from sex entirely or wait til more of (1.) Comes from you.

That my take anyways.

Sometimes I feel 2 but, how do you get emotional attachment I feel like we have had a good time every time we get together and good vibes??

What is HB8??????????????????

 

[Epimanes]

To achieve (1.) You gotta date her.. Often.. Try and get like 15hrs a week of just you two hanging out doing things you both enjoy recreationally. Don't do things that just she enjoys.. And don't do things that just you enjoy (sacrifice leads to resentment) do things you both LIKE doing together. Then try and create situational humor when doing it... Use some ****y and funny techniques. Touch her often when spending time together like her side.. Or arm or to emphasize a positive point or even as she laughs. This will associate your touch with positive feelings then go with the flow and be outcome independant (meaning you won't care of there's no sex).

If its the week just before she bleeds... Lower your expectations even more and give her some space during that time. The best time to build rapport is when you can't have sex with her. That's when she will notice if your actually into her as a person or just wanting to get into her.

HB8 is hot babe 8. Althought I don't understand how some one can be HB1 when a 1 is not even hot. I prefer just the 1-10 scale with no HB abbreviation.

Epi