HB7 princess + childlish

[pyros]

Long story short:
Met this girl HB7 at my salsa lessons. Got her number on the first time when we talked for 15 mins, I realised she has a huge princess syndrom + she's very very childish, but very very femenine.

I asked her out once, she kind of postponed it. After a week I suggested we go to have an ice cream after our salsa lesson, she agreed.
After 1.5 hours I went for a kiss but she gave me her cheek and told me that she had some issues with her ex boyfriend, blah blah.

We kept seing each other once per week at the salsa academy. After 3 weeks, I texted her and we had a small convo and I asked her out but she nicely declined.
Now, I keep seing her every week, we talk, have some fun, dance etc.
I'd really liked to bang her goddammit.

Do I ask her out again?
or do I just assume she's not interested?
Any ideas/tips?


Thanks.

 

[expos]

but she nicely declined.

This is all you need to know. If a woman likes you, they will move mountains to be with you. It should require almost no effort to get that first date or second date.

Also you called her a "princess" which is code for "relationship from hell".

Run the other way. What you've typed about her would make me run for the hills.

 

[evan12]

Do I ask her out again?

No, She only want Salsa lesson partner , why it was hard for you to figure out that ?

 

[floydb25]

A lot of people mistake immaturity for femininity. As well, just because she's youthfully hot and childish doesn't make her innocent or "nice". Many of them DO have a princess syndrome, and are stuck up, bratty, spoiled, STUPID, ditsy, shallow, etc. They also tend to be quite the sweet talkers when they want something - including someone's interest.

 

[Robert28]

your cue to next her and never talk to her again was when she brought up having issues with her ex. all that means is they've broken up for the hundredth time, but still talk on a regular basis and tell each other they "love each other" and after both of them go on a date or bang another person they'll get back together....again. you were that "other date". trust me on this, I've been there. it's happened to me alot. I now know when to pull back and say fvck a b!tch. matter of fact, I most likely would have ended the date after she told me about her ex.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Pyros,

Is this the same chick who invited you to the club? Just curious.

In any case the girl this post is referring to has low interest.

You didn't attract her properly and that's why she gave you the cheek.

What might be more helpful for you is to post a field report of the date. Things you guys talked about, her reactions etc and we could steer you back on course, telling you where you went wrong.

If you don't learn from your mistakes your bound to repeat them.

Drop this girl, she has low to no interest in you.







PIMP

 

[VladPatton]

Let it die, man it's done. And after it's dead, stick a large blade knife in it's spine for good measure.

You dodged a bullet!

 

[Mike32ct]

She's definitely not interested. Just be friendly/polite to her in class and leave it at that. Don't try to get together outside of class.

My guess is her ex is her on and off FWB.

Keep practicing your dancing. Try to become one of the top guys in your class.

You can still meet other girls there too.

 

[GotED?]

A lot of people mistake immaturity for femininity. As well, just because she's youthfully hot and childish doesn't make her innocent or "nice". Many of them DO have a princess syndrome, and are stuck up, bratty, spoiled, STUPID, ditsy, shallow, etc. They also tend to be quite the sweet talkers when they want something - including someone's interest.

+1

This is one of the most remarkable statement made on SS.

Took me a long time to realize immaturity can be mistaken for femininity.

I tend to look at adults as little boys and little girls in an adult meat suit. Relatively speaking all of us (men and women) have a inner child side deep inside of ourselves. We tend to still think from that childhood voice when we look at the world externally from our eyes in our mind.

This is no different for women - I think some of us more 'youthful' men on here (even with me being 40) still has a very strong playful side, and I tend to gravitate towards women who are also youthful and playful. Nothing wrong with it at all, I can't be bothere with boring serious women.

However, do watch out for immaturity with youthfulness and playfulness. They are a fire red flag to NEXT immediately.

Thanks Floyd.

Exodus

 

[pyros]

Pyros,

Is this the same chick who invited you to the club? Just curious.

In any case the girl this post is referring to has low interest.

You didn't attract her properly and that's why she gave you the cheek.

What might be more helpful for you is to post a field report of the date. Things you guys talked about, her reactions etc and we could steer you back on course, telling you where you went wrong.

If you don't learn from your mistakes your bound to repeat them.

Drop this girl, she has low to no interest in you.







PIMP

Hi.
No it is not the same girl.

The thing is this girl is so weird really, she is the weirdest girl Ive ever met. She considers herself a princess so she wants to be treated like one, REALLY WANTS TO. Besides, if you tease her, or do any joke she inmediately will tell you that you're mean and that she's a lady and must be treated like one, blah blah...all this faking she's upset.
She has had this odd attitude at the begining, now that we've spoken, I dont know, around 8-9 times she behaves more normal now, less whining, less princess.

Whatever, if you have a look at her FB she has hundreds of female friends and just few guys added. She has very few pictures with guys.

As I said in the previous post, if you had a look at her you would understand why I say she's so femenine, she kind of looks like Shannen Doherty when in 90210. She always dresses very nice and smells perfect, besides her very cute face. Then only bad thing is she has too big ass for my taste.

If only I could get to bang her...

P.S.
Pimp, the other wannabe girl, I talked to her again in my salsa academy, she invited me to go to X club but I declined (hah).
Then some days later we met in another salsa event, we talked for a bit, but we do not seem to fully connect, pity because she's pretty hot. By the way, she has now in whatsapp a profile picture in which shes in a tiny bikini at the beach, almost looking naked, great.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

if you tease her, or do any joke she inmediately will tell you that you're mean and that she's a lady and must be treated like one, blah blah...all this faking she's upset.

Oh gawd!! LOL I briefly dated a girl like this a few years ago, super super hot, but so entitled from the sea of chumps who put up with her bs. I remember taking her to a graduation party, I get out of the car and I'm waiting for her. She's just sitting there. Finally after about 30 seconds, she opens the door and smugly says "how nice of you to come open the door for me." --- I actually didn't realize she was serious at first...LOL

She has had this odd attitude at the begining, now that we've spoken, I dont know, around 8-9 times she behaves more normal now, less whining, less princess.

That's encouraging, but she's likely containing it.

As I said in the previous post, if you had a look at her you would understand why I say she's so femenine, she kind of looks like Shannen Doherty when in 90210. She always dresses very nice and smells perfect, besides her very cute face. Then only bad thing is she has too big ass for my taste.

I was thinking the other day, wouldn't it be rad if women came with little descriptive thought clouds above their head? Like "daddy issues, entitled, short temper" LOLLL

At least this would help some guys avoid bad apples.

Sadly though, the true chumps would still fall for these girls if they were hot. Don't let a woman's looks blindly let you miss her poor character.

If only I could get to bang her...

My guess is your not bold and confident enough to bang the girls you really want to. You play it safe and these girls likely have other options. Start posting field reports to get to the root of what your sticking point is...

she invited me to go to X club but I declined (haha)

Nice bro..

Then some days later we met in another salsa event, we talked for a bit, but we do not seem to fully connect

That's because she wants you to be a good puppy dog and you decided you'd had enough. Women like this only involve you in their life if they have full control.

pity because she's pretty hot. By the way, she has now in whatsapp a profile picture in which shes in a tiny bikini at the beach, almost looking naked, great.

Take her looks away and name 3 qualities that she has to offer.... go ahead, I'll wait........that's right, she doesn't have any...haha

Don't be fooled bro, most hot to super hot women have emotional issues. Not all..... but most, cruelest trick by evolution ehh?








PIMP

 

[Atom Smasher]

Hyper-feminine, childish, talks about herself being a princess...

These are the classic symptoms of those dreaded three letters that describe the kind of woman who will unleash hell in your life if you get involved. Danger, Will Robinson...

 

[fuzzball]

Hyper-feminine, childish, talks about herself being a princess...

These are the classic symptoms of those dreaded three letters that describe the kind of woman who will unleash hell in your life if you get involved. Danger, Will Robinson...

yes but they make for excellent lifetime movies!!

 

[pyros]

but I dont care if shes nuts, and I dont want her to be in my life you know?
just wanna have sex with her a few times.

Also for the ones that say 'tell me three good qualities about her', again:
but I dont care if shes nuts, and I dont want her to be in my life you know?
just wanna have sex with her a few times.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Also for the ones that say 'tell me three good qualities about her', again:
but I dont care if shes nuts, and I dont want her to be in my life you know?
just wanna have sex with her a few times.

If you just wanted to bang her, why were you asking her out on dates?

You need to treat entitled byatches like this as if they're normal people.

That's what gets their hamster spinning.

They are almost use to the automatic chump response of most men, that when you go against the grain, they become interested in you.

This isn't just for potentially crazy girls, this is advice that will get you the girl in most cases.

Add that with social proof and you are going to be a vag slayer....

The lower the self-esteem the easier they will be to bag up.

My guess is you don't convey this to the women you deal with, your game seems more "safe" and that doesn't get you laid.









PIMP

 

[Atom Smasher]

but I dont care if shes nuts, and I dont want her to be in my life you know?
just wanna have sex with her a few times.

Also for the ones that say 'tell me three good qualities about her', again:
but I dont care if shes nuts, and I dont want her to be in my life you know?
just wanna have sex with her a few times.

The risk is that if she turns out to be nuts or BPD, it will be harder to shake her off than you can ever imagine.

 

[Night-hawk]

Wise replies gentlemen.

 

[floydb25]

If you just wanted to bang her, why were you asking her out on dates?

You need to treat entitled byatches like this as if they're normal people.

That's what gets their hamster spinning.

They are almost use to the automatic chump response of most men, that when you go against the grain, they become interested in you.

This isn't just for potentially crazy girls, this is advice that will get you the girl in most cases.

Add that with social proof and you are going to be a vag slayer....

The lower the self-esteem the easier they will be to bag up.

My guess is you don't convey this to the women you deal with, your game seems more "safe" and that doesn't get you laid.

PIMP

Yes... A lot of these hot, crazy, immature, stuck up, high class, entitlement princess *****es are all about the bad boy game. You don't ask them out, and it's not even how they role. They especially want what they can't have, respond more favorably to indifference / neglect, and even abuse (their "challenge"), are easy as hell if you escalate quickly, etc.

These girls you only want to ****.... guess what? So does everyone else... it's all they're good for, AND used for... with good reason. Not to mention, it's all they RESPOND to, push for themselves, seek after, and are familiar with.

Don't wine and dine, court, ask out, sympathize with, get to know, etc, with these types. They're not into it... only the thrills, games, drama, uncertainty, sex, etc. They're shallow and retarded... plan accordingly.

 

[pyros]

Hi.

I dont understand.
If I only want to bang her you say do not take her on dates. What?
Whether I just want to bang her or date her, in any case I have to ask her out and meet somewhere to do something, ie have a drink in some nice bar, talk, have some laughs, and then kiss close, etc etc


what the heck did you mean by you do not take her on a date?

P.S.
Pimp, do you remember the HB8 wannabe girl with hundres of pics of herself on FB?, well, after building a bit more of rapport by talking and dancing with her, I thought: what the heck? Ill use the second strikes rule. So I asked her out for drinks and she said ok. (remember the first time I asked her out a month ago she kind of ignored it)
Anyway, Im not really sure we connect, so Ill have a drink with her and see how it goes but, lets say we do not fully click, I want to bang her anyway, so Im pretending I like her anyways, so I get to have sex with her, dont you think?
Other suggestions?