"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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HB7, 19 yo, ****teaser

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I went out with some of my friends and this female friend of mine brought one of her young female friends. This chick is an HB7.5, 19 years old, and I've heard she's an attention *****, you know, has dozens of guys friends on FB, instagram etc...uploads lots of sexy selfies to get validation and male attention...etc.

So we were having fun in a club and at some point I danced one bachata with this young chick, lets call her Alex. It seemed she was into me, laughed at all my jokes, etc.
One hour or so later, we were all dancing, and she was really close to me so I took her hands and we started to dance...and then to grind...and basically I got a bonner, she could feel it...we kept dancing sensually...and I decided to kiss her but she was looking at the floor all the time, so I could not get to see her mouth.

After around 5 or more minutes of this, she released me. We kept talking a bit and I thought that she maybe did not want to make out in front of our friends, so I told her to go grab a coke at the bar and she agreed.
I thought it was already done, so when we got to the bar, I told her if her mouth was dry or wet, she said wet...and then I said: "ok..., so can I verify it?" I dont know if she did not understand it or what, but when I got closer to her mouth she said: "oh, I see" and she turned her face slightly to one side and stroked my jaw and said to get back to our friends. wtf?

Then, I acted as if nothing happened. We kept having fun for a while but we did not grind anymore.
I did not know if I wanted to try my luck again or not, but before I could decide this, two girls from France came to talk to me, we had some laughs etc, talked for like 10 minutes and I got both numbers. These two looked pretty into me, cause one even asked me if I had a gf, both told me they were available...haha, etc.
This other chick Alex was staring at us at times...lol.

Anyway, I'd like to get to bang Alex so...considering she's an attention *****...considering she was grinding with me for like 5-10 minutes...and considering she kind of rejected my kiss...
how would you proceed? I was gonna apply the two strikes rule.
First strike she rejected my kiss, now I ask her out and if she rejects me she's out.
Any tips?


P.S.

This is the first time I get a bonner from grinding with a girl and I get nothing out of the situation, I GOT BLUE BALLS, damn it.
Anyway I will text these other two french girls tomorrow to see if we hang out, but Alex is hotter.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Well dude. Some women like sex and many like attention. Some get the attention they need in sex and others get enough attention they dont need sex. Its different then men.
 
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Don't pay it too much mind. She needs to come to you. I met the exact same prototype on a flight a month ago, HB7, 19 years old, goth with pink hair, sexy hazel eyes and a 99 lb frame. I wanted to take this girl into the bathroom and bend her legs back right there.

We had a stimulating 3 hour conversation lasting the entire flight before SHE asked for MY number. We set up a date for the following week and it was a stone cold flake. Not a word. My mistake was setting up a date. I should have set a tentative, wide open date and told her to text me when she was feeling free. If you do that there's very little pressure on her or control in her hands. If she's flaky at least she won't get too much satisfaction knowing you're not sitting on your hands at a certain time.

I was down for 2 days following the flake then moved right along, and the bad mood shouldn't even have lasted that long.

These girls are your BDP's in training. Tread carefully.
 
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