"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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HB6 into HB8 in one yrs...help plzzz

sac_hot_male

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first of all i want you guys to forgive me for asking this questions (since i'm sure people has ask already)...

ok i'm gonna start out with a quick summary to get you guys filled in...


back in my freshman years there was this one girl in my english class and she was like a HB4....now i have her class again and ohh my how she has change....she went from a HB4 to a HB8.....as you can see we have computer class together and i sit in the back of the class while she sits in the front of the class....the class rule is that first comes first serve meaning that there is no assign seat and who ever comes in first gets first choice of the seat.....i alway get my seat at the back but sometimes she doesnt and there would be extra seat next to me so she would come sit next to me....

i must mention this too:
she is the kind of girl that would hit guys around and the meanie one....meanie ones means that if for example if i flirted with and she's not interested in me she "WILL" give me a big rejection such as mugging me with an ugly look without even answering me.....

with that say and done i just wanted to ask you guys this:

-what should i say to her especially when she those (above) kind of girls

-give me some good examples and lines so that i could cut these bad rejection into a not so hurting rejection

any suggestions and advices would be helpful.....thank
 

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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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Wow thats suprising that a former UG could be so heartless!

Well i dont think the fact she rejects guys so 'badly' should matter at all. Its just a look so really its all in your head, its no worse then her just saying no, the only way it colud be bad is if hse made a scene about it and embarased you infront of the class.
 

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ok i think she acts like such a bich is because back in her freshman years probably all the guys ignored her, so now she is better any guy who chases her will get rejected if she thinks she is better than them.
The way here is to make sure that you keep the right mentality, you are better than her, she should be the one chasing you and not you chasing her, you are the prize, not her, even though you must initiate the first action you must lead her and give her a challenge, totherwise you will get rejected.
Talk to her at first, make sure she is not intimiated by your presence, so on the day that you actually want to ask her for her number she will not be suprised.
Make sure the lines you use are not common, dont ask her for anything, like where is the chemistry class etc... i am not an expert on openers so you should read some tips from the hall of fame.
As for not getting hurt, we all get hurt sometimes, everyone get rejected, even a master DJ sometimes slip and get rejected, the thing to keep in mind is that the reason she rejects, in most cases girls rejects a boy because of her own fault, like she is having a bad time, her cat just died, etc... they are just as emotional as us so any thing that is not going their way could get you rejected. The best course of action is to strike when they are happy, that way it reduces the chances of you getting rejected.
Goodluck
Remeber, if you get rejected, move on, dont stick with her, i am sure there are alot of other HBs you can go for, dont think just because she used to be ugly she is going to be easy, girls are masters at playing games, so watch out.
 

sac_hot_male

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yea i no that girls are master of these types of games....

one more questions.....

where can i go to read the hall of fame after i'm new around here
 

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then on your left you should see a panel
chose hall of fame instead of forum.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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