"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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hb5,hb6? or hb10?

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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PapiChulo

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I like 7s and 8s. Cute is my fetish. Perfect is bland.
 

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mustfirstregister said:
will you rather **** lots of 5,6 or just a 10
this is a null question, depends where you are

if you are just starting out in the game - say you have a "3 year plan", it should go something like this..........
year one - quantity over quality - you wont have the skills/value for the real hotter women ..... gaining experience as much as possilbe from average girls (and the odd cute/nice one )
Year 2 - only gaming cute girls, rather than average girls, as you have referance experiences you will be able to deal with situations better and have some good value/mindsets (e.g. abundance mindset)
year 3 - only going for the hotties, as you will be now able to deal with "cute girls" moving to the highest stage of female quality, by this time you can screen hard for the real gems out there

keep in mind that im not saying the hot women are better nor am i putting them on a biggger pedestal, you just need tighter game
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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